Who cares? I do. I'm sure most of the other females do as well. And I think you should do too.
As our Prophet said "If one of you sees something evil he should change it with his hand. If he cannot, he should speak out against it, and if he cannot do even that he should at least detest it in his heart, this being the weakest form of faith."
So I'll atleast do what I can. It certainly was not something funny but a mere, maybe unconsious (if you are too naive, huh?), act of disgrace. I don't know what your initial intention was and I'm not gonna go too far in my judgement but it wasn't worth of your witticism.
Tano you are getting emotional here, he did not intended in that manner. I do agree with you totally but,
In our life specially when we are young, every one wants to do some mazak masti or so called ‘chichora pana’… if we are from a good and educated family then definition for chichora pana is different, and if we are from a middle or lower class with less education, then significance is different for the same action. It goes on at all the levels of man made social circles. The passion depends on the intellectual and educational level.
People from Liari would have diverse meaning than people living in Society areas. But every one does the same in their own styles. This is how people make different social identities in a society.
I have also spent a good time while in College / University’s student life. But that was a different class, I never hurt any one in my life, we only did chotay chotay mazak as I do here on GS. Girls guys they all do the same in different fashions.
But in any case we should keep in mind to respect the individual and we should not hurt any one’s feelings.