Kaneez/Bandi

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You can have sex with a slave in front of another slave? What the heck?

I don't know why it was continued after the Prophet's death for centuries (its still practiced today, except replace slave with house maid). But that doesn't make it halaal or an encouraged practice or something that can still be acceptable in today's world. How many stupid things happened after the Prophet's death, and are we to follow those actions of the muslim people? Or do we stay true to what the Quran tells us? The Quran tells us to stick to spouses, and what the right hand posseses. First of all, "right hand" is taken to mean slave, but I've come across some scholars that say it doesn't mean slave necessarily. Nevertheless, even if it does mean slave - look around you. Do you see slaves? Does this ayah mean we should keep slaves? Obviously not, because you have ayahs and also hadith's that tell you to set slaves free if they choose freedom.

Now, I want to know what slave would not want freedom? What slave woman would not want to have sexual relations with a lawfully wedded partner rather than someone who treats her like a side appetizer?

And also read closely the part of the ayah that says if the slave girl wants chastity, then give it to her.

So, in the wild rare event that you were to have a slave today, and logically speaking, chances are she wouldn't want to sleep with you unless you're Brad Pitt, which you're most likely nothing close to, then you have to respect that, and not sleep with her.

Simple.

The Prophet showed thru his own example of setting free slaves. Did he have a slave harem? No. So, how can you justify stuff like that?

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Mostar95 I can share with you what I know, but what surprises me most and makes me want to ignore this message board completely is that I continuously see people coming here and asking questions in the guise of an innocent knowledge seeker. Where as their real intent is to make a point either against Islam or ridicule a madhab (and I am not defending madhahib here ) or part of the faith of another.

I hope you are not one of them!!

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Just give references, I will look them up myself.

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InshAllah. But I am really busy here today....so it might take some time. If you don't mind search for information on rights of slaves in islam and see if find it ...
JAK

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JAK. Inshallah!

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I'm sorry...I don't follow...hudood law for what? Keeping slaves?

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There is no such chronology. Banning of alcohol was explicit. Slavery was allowed, but not really encouraged or mandated. It simply was.

A sudden release of slaves would raise the question as to where they would go and what they would do. 24:33 is an open invitation for all slaves to "buy" their freedom...although references are scarce, I would wager only few opted to actually exercise this option.

Further, why would it have been banned? The alternatives, at least for captives, would have been genocide.

The slave trade, which is something different, is something Muslims did participate in during the imperial age, but often by circumventing Islamic law.

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Who told u tht sex was Allowed with Kaniz and bandi in Arab when Muhamamd (pbuh) was alive?yaar khuda ka kuch khoof karoo apna zhan bhi use kia karoo is se tum koun sa islam samnay laa rahi hoo agar jhooty riwayaatain tumhe aisa bata rahi hai tu kia tum in ko andhoo aur bahroo ke tanha Qabool kar loo gaya PyariCGudia sahiba yea post app ke liye yahaan ke sab guppies ke liye main app ke baat se yea bata raha hoo ke yea Kabhi bhi jaiz nahi tha haan os zamanay main araab ka Culture aisa tha ke Woh log Apni Kaniz aur Bandi ke sath bhi talooqaat rakhtay thai isalaam nay kabhi aisa nahi kia Agar app riwaytoon ko sath lay kar chalain gaye tu Jamaat Ahl e Sunnat main bhi Mutaa jaiz hai Bhukhari sahaab ke hadeesooo main app ko is ke ejazaat bhi mil jaye gaye yea woh log thai jo islam ka libada pahaan kar hadees garhtay thai aur jo kaam islam nay mana kiye thai Woh islam ke naam per hi Jaiz karwa rahi thai.Abhi agar app main se kisi ko History se interest hoo Daikh lain is main bhut se aisaay kaam hai jo app log Yahodi aur Essai jaisay karty hai app ne kabhi is ke bare main soocha hi nahi yaahaan sirf ek bata daita hoo
Haqeeqa Jo islam ke ek rookaan baan gaya(jaab bacha paida hoota hai) hai jaab Yahoodi aur Essai ke haan Ulaad hooty thi woh Khuda ko khush karny ke liye balic charatay thai Khuda ke liye Aur muslim bhi islam ke naam per Allah ko khoosh karnay k liye janwaar ke bali charhatay hai.Agar app is ko Haqeeqa naam hi dai dain lakin mafoom is ka ek hi Bali charhaana.Yaad rakhiye Khudah koi Budh nahi hai jiz ko app janwaar ka khoon bhaa kar khosh kar dain gaye.

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I asked this question:

Mostar95's reponse in a PM to my question:

hence I will not answer your questions and fuel the quest for abyss!

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how can we pass such judgements with any degree of confidence
when it clearly states in Quran

[QUOTE]
"who abstain from sex, except with those joined in the marriage bond [spouses], or (the captives) whom their right hands possess,-for (in their case) they are free of blame
[/QUOTE]

ab aap is kay upar lartay rahiyah what "right hand posseses" means...
Also bear in mind this option is totally different from adultery as is explained by the quranic verse

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                                    Don't through those pre defined term/standard on me.
     Here is a question is adultery fun  when
      You have to responsible for that women all needs.
 which include
 1-shelter
 2-food
 3-protection
 4-raised the baby if she has any

 5-If you get her pregnant kid will be known as your son---that kid gets share of you property.
      6-in that time she can't have relation to another man.

Its more like having next wife the plan short term pleasure.

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knockout artist: I hope you realize that these were regulations put into place to curb the practice of abusing slaves (sexually, emotionally, physically). Now, keep in mind the Quran is also telling you to free your slaves if they ask for freedom:

So lets evaluate the scenarios, shall we:

You have a slave. They want freedom. You have no choice but to give them freedom as per Quran's orders. You don't get your sex.

You have a slave. They convert into a believing muslim. You have no choice but to marry them with a nikkah. You get your sex, but you now have a wife. Not so exciting anymore, is it?

You have a slave. They don't want to be freed, and they want to be your sex slave. Okay, but that lady is one weird lady. Or circumstances are close to that of the end of the world. But how that woman thinks that by sleeping with YOU out of wedlock, she's helping herself, I have no clue.

You have a slave. They want to be set free. You dont set them free and instead have sex with them. You have sinned and most likely, deserve to go to hell.

Now, what other scenarios are plaguing your mind such that you wish to assert the right to have sex with slaves you don't have and that you'd probably be arrested for having in the first place?

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^ jokes aside

I never knew the option you described above in post 41.

Thanks for all that information.

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Really there r things which r hallal but it didnt mean that Muslim have to adopt them .Islam is suppose to be for every time n region n thats why there r relaxations which applied for a time period but it didnt mean u have to adopt them .The best thing is to stop ones self from the sins which r clearlly forbiden by God in Hadith n Quran .

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We're actually saying the same thing - our differences are based on our different ways of expressing the same thing.