gHuLaiL ka mashwara acha thaa. Aazmaa kay daikh lo.
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*Originally posted by Muzna: *
Communicate. With your fiancee and with yourself.
There are a few complexities with your situation that you need to address right away. Granted you accepted the proposal because your mom likes the girl, were you actually ready to commit? Did you do it to please yourself or your mother? It doesn't take much to know that if you don't make these kinds of decisions for the right reasons, you live to regret.
Tell your fiancee how you feel. Let her know that you are dearly devoted to your parents (make sure you include both mom and dad else you'll only fuel a fire that has been burning for centuries) and that you would want your spouse to be too. Just as you would be close to her parents. Make your feelings/fears clear to her and clarify things before they become bigger issues.
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i don't know muzna baji thats the confusion i always get myself in to cuz as i said in the beginning i did it only cuz of my mom thinking ke kisse to honi hai to isse hi sahih but its not a big issue anymore as i cleared my mind that now she is my fiance and i am going to marry her. but i guess there is a communication problem and now i think i should address my fears and issues to my fiance and clear these thinkgs up as early as possible....
Thanks once again for all the replies.... :)