Re: Kabhi khushi kabhi Gham..lol!
wow...i feel a bit relieved to read your post Gulnaar! im getting married early next year, and i have the same feelings! i just felt like it was me only that was feeling this way...as the time is getting closer, i keep getting thoughts as sometimes regrets ( not to the guy im marrying he is wonderful ah) but to "did i make my decision to get married too soon?" (im 23) and if i waited a bit more, i could have enjoyed my single status more (not in THAT way!) i miss the times when i would daydream about who the man i would marry and its kind of not fun now that that fantasy is over....
getting married is such a big change. Its a whole different lifestyle, and i feel like my childhood is gonna be gone in an instant...and i won't be able to be pull off being crazy and stupid randomness like i used to be.
And yes! of course missing my family! i dont know how im gonna live without them...it is crazy that we have to be the ones to sacrifice that! thats soo not fair...the guy gets the girl and his family...they're so lucky
But i keep reminding myself that marriage is something wonderful....you wake up to someone that will care about you and go to sleep in the arms of the person that is the other half of you....marriage is something that is going to happen to us girls one day or another, so we can't escape from it too long....
you will be fine! don't worry...and i am having the same exact thoughts as you...so youre not the only one on your boat.