ok im not trying to break the suspense of this movie..
but honestly can u fall in love after marriage? is it ethical? forget about being wrong… is it fair for your Husband? his wife? vice versa?!
i found it worng unfair.. unethical…
LadOo!
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hello!
im really asking..
how would u forgive ur wife? or ur husband?
and how would u do something like this?
how come in old times... our relationships were priorities...
And nowas we get educated.. the first things we are ready to let go is our values and relationship!? how come.. as we are advancing in everything else... we're leaving the most important aspect of our lives behinD
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You have asked 2 diff questions here now. One is falling in love after marriage, other is following through marriage.
In the past, relationships survived mainly due to family pressures and values, "logg kia kaheinge". Falling in luv outside marriage? various reasons. First is that person is not in luv with his/her partner so whenever they find "the one", they let themselves go. Second, the two were in luv but fell out of luv (which seems to be the story of the movie). Falling out of luv happens when people start taking each other for granted. Luv is a responsibility. When you luv some1, you make a committment to luv that person forever. And it takes two to survive that luv relationship. As I said, people take each other for grnated, start focussing more on the negative and start getting distanced than resolving their differences, so finally they fall out of luv. Though I belive true luv remains somewhere deep in your heart, even if you have so many troubles/issues in between.
But, c'est la vie. Human beings are not predictable, and it happens certainly when they are least responsible.
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[quote=Larki-NY]
You have asked 2 diff questions here now. One is falling in love after marriage, other is following through marriage.
In the past, relationships survived mainly due to family pressures and values, "logg kia kaheinge". Falling in luv outside marriage? various reasons. First is that person is not in luv with his/her partner so whenever they find "the one", they let themselves go. Second, the two were in luv but fell out of luv (which seems to be the story of the movie). Falling out of luv happens when people start taking each other for granted. Luv is a responsibility. When you luv some1, you make a committment to luv that person forever. And it takes two to survive that luv relationship. As I said, people take each other for grnated, start focussing more on the negative and start getting distanced than resolving their differences, so finally they fall out of luv. Though I belive true luv remains somewhere deep in your heart, even if you have so many troubles/issues in between.
But, c'est la vie. Human beings are not predictable, and it happens certainly when they are least responsible.[/quowete]
Well xplained, i m Agree :)
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wat about marriage?? doesnt tht matter?
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just get married and love the person who u marry and thats all =)
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hmm...
wat if tmrw tht person says he/she dsnt wana live with u after marriage couple of years down the road!?
or u fall in love with some one else?!
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so what was the first marriage?? love??
Anyway if he/she fell in love with another woman/man and was having an affair. I dont think the spouse should take him back even if he/she forgives him. If the person can cheat once,he/she can certainly cheat again. Unless both of um were having an affair. In that case whatever agreement they can come up with.
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*Lower your gazes Oh! believing men and women. *
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thts my point as well... ppl say they love their Gf/Bf thn get married to some one else
and thn they love them..
now.. which love is true?! or rite or wrong?
relationshipss are more on convinience bases thn on feelings and emotions..
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Love is a little over-rated. And whoever said that a person only falls in love once in a lifetime was full of baloney. Plus the fact that you can fall in love with whoever you please. Ppl love their cats, dogs and other strange creatures, what's up with that?
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Man stop giving away the movie 
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if the couple has understanding with eachother then its impossible to fall in love after marriage .well if they are not happy then they should go seperate ways.instead of giving dhookha to eacthother by seeing another man or gal they simply get divorce with sulah safahi and marry another guy or gal...ISLAM also says that if u dont feel comfortable with eacth other simply get separated:)
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lol i justed watched tht film today
its a film darling i dont think tht happen in rl
and if tht happens than tht hhusband and wife needs to get a live
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i simply failed to understand how in da world da wife prefered a retarded looking, bitter shahrukh to a romantic, hunky husband like abhishek
ch ch ch ch
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first…it was the most boring 4 hours of my entire life…wish sumone wud have told me not to watch it…ive never hated Sharukh more…his character FLOPPED…
even if u have problems in marraige ur suppose to sort them out…not wait for an excuse to have n affair…
but if ur totally being ignored and it cant be sorted…get a divorce and find someone else…ur current hubby/wife might be coming in ur way of ur true love…it happens!!!..depends on qismut…
haan…albutta…if u find a friend who is the opposite gender…u can talk…but bearing in mind we live in asian society…opposite gender as friends are not allowed…
like they say…
a man and a woman cant be friends…
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hmm.. so if im in a realtionship..
and my husband tlks to these client (females) work purpose.. but they flirt its alrite??
and if i be FRENDS with a guy is not fair?!
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oh COMMON
buisness is a buisness, cup of tea is a cup of tea…
ur talking about the cup of tea (friends)…it depends if u talk to ur ‘friend’ wthout any reason…on purpose…jaan booj ke…and its ur intention…
if he’s flirting with his clients but saying he’s having a buisness meeting…u know he’s lying and doing it on purpose…
its the intention behind it that counts…
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The question of falling in love with another person won't arise if there is love in the marraige to start with.
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