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*Originally posted by NeSCio: *
hmmm......that's sad
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mera kasoor kia tha yeh batado mujhe :(
har koi mujeh blame karaha hia.. abhi os ke parents yehan nahi hian.. wo aayangay to wo bhi mujhe nahi choraingay :(*
hmmmmmmmmm.......yaar i know behnoun mein and friends mein secret hote hein like me and my sis.....jub bhi mein koi wrong kaam kuroun she warns me otherwise tell mum and dad ans same with me...but that doesnt mean keep it a secret...secret ussi wuqt rukhte hein jub koi wrong kaam ho raha hou and u let it happeen in front of ur eyes...and that IDIOT lugunga chhooorraa lurka.....wo tamasha dekhta raha...and wo nadaan lurki ki sumujh mein kuch na aaya kiya?......this is redicolous....
this is BULL and sarasur SHAME!......but peeps yaar tumne bhi tau secret rukh ke aacha na na kiya.....i mean.....if u were doing the right thing then HOW COME u didnt help her HOW COME us ke damagh wo baat na bheti?...that means u needed help and so did she.....aub uske parents tumhare baare mein kiya kuhein gei?...u were suppose to be her friend to help her out at bad times yet u kept it a secret ta ke baat bhur jaye......
aub mein kiya keh sukti houn but keh be careful next time izzut tumhare maan baap ki bhi ja suqti hei naam tumhare pe bhi aa suqta hei keh u have a hand in it....loug bohut hein moun bhi bohut hein and baatein bhi bohut buri buri...so just be carefull....:(
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*Originally posted by proudpakistani007: *
mera kasoor kia tha yeh batado mujhe :(
har koi mujeh blame karaha hia.. abhi os ke parents yehan nahi hian.. wo aayangay to wo bhi mujhe nahi choraingay :(*
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i didn't blame u......and i don't think it's ur fault.......it's her parents fault 100%. noone else to blame but the parents. Becuz it was THEIR responsibility to have na attitude towards their daughter which would enable that girl to trust them.
that girl took this step cuz she didn't trust her parents, so the child-parent relation was not optimal. Now, the girl can be excused for not optimizing this relation cuz she was still young. so therefore the bulk of the blame falls onto the parents' shoulder. If they come and start blaming u, u just tell them they are the guilty ones cuz they couldn't even provide their daughter an environment in which she could trust them
Qusum se yaar agur meri behun hoti us lurki ki jaga i would........i mean mein pehle usse sub kuch sumjhati and warn kurti....agur wo baaz na aaye then take action and if straight then u HAVE TO TELL.......otherwise blame goes on u and ur family......
yaar pata tau hei hi agur baat koi na bhi houn mugur loug baat bana lete hein......phir aacha nuhi rehta....parents ko hum dukhi nuhi deakh suqte....
try to undertsand Amber...no one is blaming u and im NOT saying u did a bad thing...im sure tum ne use lectures diya houn gei but wo tau ubhi buchi hei........and being an adult u did what u thought was right.....i would never let her get away with it and tell my mum straight away.....coz uski bhalai hei is mein....
Like i said before parents are to blame........if they cant communicate with their daughter well and yet expect her to be on her best behaviour then this is wrong.......i have an understanding in everything with my parents im not shy in talking to them about anything.....let it my mum or dad....mein moun khoul bolti houn and i get a polite response with a reason behind it which goes in my head straight away.....
anyway dont worry........u did what u could do and could have done...tel ur mum ur sorry and that u were scared keh kuch ho na jaye...and maafi maang lou next time be carefull....OK?....
check ur pm....
ok
oh.......it......didnt concern u......
im sorry.....it was for peeps..........
pm mein aub rukha bhi kiya hei.......kuch bhi tau nuhi.....
ahaa 
i was already wondering, cuz i didn’t get any :~D
sorry......
so that means i can expect one now?
ohhh.....
mein ne hur cheez mein pehul kurna chour diya hei.....
like i said before im not who i am anymore.....
first of all she is not my friend.. mere dost hoty to jaan say maar daity.. wo os ki stupid behen hia.. jo kabhi bhi nahi apsadn mujhe.... os ki harkatain.. os ki dressing jab wo mere ghar aaty hia.. os ka larkoan say first hi meetinhg main itna free hojana.. seriously.. yeh sab cheap laghta hia mujhe.. laikin main ne hamesha osay acha treat kia.. osay samjhayaa.. sab kuch kiaa..laikin wo nahi mani..
yeh parents ki zimmedari hoty hia yar... wo ghar main bol kar jaty thi ke liabry jaarahi hia.. aur wahan os say milne jaty thi.. main ne zaroor aisay kaam kiay hian jis ke paata chalne say parents hurt haon laikin har cheez limit main rahi.. kabhi main ne wo kaam nahi kai jis say on par koi baat aasakay...
yes i fell in love to.. yeh ghalati main ne bhi ki.. laikin os waqt tak jab tak mujhe pata tha ke meri muhabbat pakeeza har cheez say ziada pure reh sakay.. laikin jab mujeh laga ke baat physical meetin tak jaye gi i quit.. i hurt myself alot by doin this.. laikin mujheee apnay maan baap ki izzat apni jaan say bhi ziada azzeeez hia.. aurr mere parents phir bhi mujh par trust nahi akrte. aik baar aitemaad main ne on ka khoya just by liking someone... aur ab wo trust mujeh wapis nahi mil raha.. har baar schq ki nigah say dekhi jaty haon.. i feel this soo bad aashi.. on ko mera gs par aanaa kisi say bhi baat karna kisi say bhaion jaisa bhi relation raskhna pasand nahi..
wo kyon nahi samajhtay ke main ne bhi on ke liay qurbani di.. jo ke mere age ke loog akser nahi daitay... phir bhi wo mujh nahi samajhtya..
parents specially maan friends ki tarah honi chayay.. specially on baition ke liay jin ki koi behen nahi hoty.. aur mere ammi na hi dost banty hian aur har waqt gila karti hian ke mujhe bataya karo kuch bhi ho.. mujhe koi schikayaat nahi.. laikin atleast aik baar phir say trust karke to dekhain.. aaaj main ne fajr ki namaaz main aik dua bohat shiddat say mangi.. tum ko bataongi jab bhi poori hogi..
subha ke waqt to Allah apnay bandaon ki ziada sunta hia na :)
Amber, after reading these past few posts I have even more respect for you than ever before. You truly are a credit to your parents :k: 
where is completely incomplete lately?
Peeps, thats really sad. lekin logon ki different cheezon kay paray main different opinions hoti hain. ab sab log life ko tumhari ya meri ankhon say nahi dekhte. aur hamaray laakh samjhne par dekh bhi nahi sakte! you know, i used to think kay kisi close frnd waghera kay samjhane say log samajh jatay hain. lekin aisa kuch nahi hai. log sirf mashwaray letay hain lekin pata nahi for what. cuz they will always do what THEY want to do unless woh khud ko force karain kuch theek sochne par. lekin both kam log aisay hote hain who actually want ur opinion to change their opinions. but not many ppl are like that!
i havent read all the posts, lekin i just hope that girl is doing fine. insaan say mistakes hoti rehti hain. and he learns from his mistakes, thats how he gets more close to life and its realities. so, IF she tries to do that again or doesnt forget all what happened phir aur baat hai.
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*Originally posted by Aashi: *
ur excuse was a long one.....must have taken u a long time to write it in words......
but guess what....it didnt work!.....
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what exactly do u want to hear aashi?? i thought i explained it...
and again.. just to correct u... no one knows anything.... no one from gupshup atleast.... and this is true... u can ask passy or peeps... they dont know anything...
i'll pm u soon
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*Originally posted by Destinee: *
what exactly do u want to hear aashi?? i thought i explained it...
and again.. just to correct u... no one knows anything.... no one from gupshup atleast.... and this is true... u can ask passy or peeps... they dont know anything...
i'll pm u soon
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will be waiting for that pm....
hope u got my pm too!!!!.....
agur kisi ko nuhi pata well i want to know.......coz there are few things i want to tell u too.....
I've done things, that have led my parents not trust me...
I have argued and fought endlessly with them, on many occasions
and unfortunately not always obeyed them.
But in the end when it comes down to it, I could never have a secret just b/f-g/f relationship behind their backs-MAYBE if I knew if it was going to end in marriage-but then if thats gonna happen whats the reason for keeping it secret right?
And if they didn't want me to marry someone-no matter how much I lvoed the guy, I could NEVER EVER go against them and do it anyways
When my friends ask me to drink or date-they say who cares, its not lilke you parents will know-and maybe thats true, lekin Allah ko sab kuch nazar aata hai, aur phir bhi maa baap ki koi to izzat honi chaaye...
My two cents and 3 Am ramblings for now :D
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i respect u 714, u and ur beliefs.....