…ok so i know a lot of girlz who live in pak and dunnu anything about “sex” or how u have kids.
like one of my aunt was over at my house and she was basically saying she never knew anything like that before marrige.
i dont belive that… how can that be possible? i mean seriously someone 25 and still doesn’t know anything like that.
so i was just wondering is it for real that girlz in pak dunnu before marrige … like seriously?
and its not just her … like i have some friends/cousin’s and family friends and stuff and they all say the same.
and also i was once talkin to one of my cousin in pak over the internet and i said a joke and she didn’t get… she was like “what does that mean”
you know what i really think… i’m purteh sure, they’re shy to addmited or they wanna act like they dunnu anything about these kinda things and they’e all pure and stuff.
and i also noticed girls that live in pak are soo shy to ask or to even discuss about anything like that., even with their own mom … like seriously?
i’ve lived all my life with my mum, why would i ever be scared to ask/discuss anything like that with my mom? ok fine maybe you feel awkward with your mum but your sis? come on seriously.
for ex: my aunt was preg and she had some questions and she never asked her sis or mum cuz she felt too shy. And i asked her if her sis’s (who are are all 23+) know’s anthing … she was like she doesnt think so.
my aunt has now lived here for 5 years and now she’s all fine and doesn’t feel shy to discuss and she admitted that when she lived in pak she was very different. and i asked her if everyone is like that over there and she said most ppl are. she said it’s something no one really talks about so girls or anyone isn’t really comfortable talkin about things like that.
and also another things whats up with khalas comin and explaining things to the girl???
i dunnu if it’s just me that feels this but it’s weird… i mean its hard to belive… i was 13 and i knew everything. i guess its differnt here.
like when i go to work everyone makes jokes ( unapproperiate ones) but no one goes like “omg what did that person just say”
obviously we dont makes or talk about things like that all the time … i mean most of the time we’re working and everyone acts mature… but what i’m trying to say is that no one freaks out on things that are reallity and everyone knowz.
i’m personally some what conservative person and i have conservative friends also but no one acts like that.. like seriously. it’s not something crazy, it’s like 2nd nature.
and i also hated when some old paki mom’s say " tuba astagfrula…dekho to esay kitni malumaat hai asi batoon ki" lol u know those old mentality ppl.
anywayz ppl plz put your thought down. and sorreh about all of the slang and or typo’z.
