Re: just wondering.....
I have an aunt who is divorced and raising 4 kids as a single mother. As much as everyone in the family tries to help her, she is still struggling. Her husband was a jerk who left her for some gori woman. Its pretty sad. The thing is, her situation kinda relates to the situation khalil described cuz she has 3 daughters and a son. The kids r all very young... oldest daughter is 14 and the youngest son is 5. Not having a fatherly figure at home has kinda made the 2 older girls (14 and 12) to do some stupid stuff. I mean stuff like having boyfriends at that age n wat not... obviously, all the adults in the family r unaware of this but us kids know everything through their facebook n wat not. They even go to school and change their clothes to the clothes their mother wouldnt approve of. I havent told my aunt directly abt this but I have warned her several times to keep an eye on her daughters.
I feel that my aunt is kinda to be blamed as well cuz once I went to her house and she told me to drive her older daughter and her friend to the mall cuz they had to do some shopping. I went to pick up her friend at her house and her friend was wearing the shortest skirt I have EVER seen in my life... this girl is only 14 and she was showing her undies to the world. Anyways, I drop them off and ask my cousin if she needed some money knowing how her mom is going through some financial problems and she took $20 from me. I came back to my aunt's house n told her how short her daughter's frdz skirt was and she should actually keep an eye on who her daughter is hanging around with.. randomly in the conversation, she tells me that she had given her $100 for shopping. I was shocked! I kinda yelled at my aunt for handing that much money over to a 14 yr old knowing that she is going through financial crises. She goes ohh beta she said she needs to buy stuff for her school project and I told her how dumb can u get... who needs $100 for a grade 8 school project? I was so mad that the girl even took $20 from me on top of having $100..she lied that she didnt have enough from her mom. I didnt tell my aunt but I told my mom abt the $20 and my mom goes beta if they had a father that wouldnt happen.. but I still feel that its kinda my aunt's fault too..besides all the warnings n stuff she still pretends like she didnt see anything. My dad saw a pic of this girl in her bra cuz he was using my laptop and she came online and my msn was open n she msged thinking its me and she had this up on her display pic... my dad was furious and actually spoke to her mother abt this. she didnt get in any trouble..
i have been off topic lol. anyways, but yea, my point was that being divorced & leaving her kids without a fatherly figure at home has apparently resulted in this for my aunt.