just found out something new...

[Deeba1234]

Re: just found out something new…

@Silver_Falcon_Of_Kashmir

And what do you expect your husband to do, to confront his own mother or to think that his mom is evil? That’s totally absurd. Which child in the world would like to think that of their parent? Which child in the world, no matter how wicked their parents are would hate them, or side against them for the sake of others. You are his wife, yes that’s true. But she is his mother, she gave birth to him, she raised him. I am surprised that you cannot grasp this simple fact even though you yourself are a mother too. Would you like it if one of your children comes tomorrow to confront you or to chide you for your behaviour for the sake of pleasing their spouse? So aisi situations create karne ki zaroorat hi kya hai.

Did she say that? Desis really need to get over this mentality of parents, husband or whoever else being on such a high pedestal they’re seen as never being wrong.

Not talking about Nadz situation but it really shouldn’t come down to taking sides blindly.. Parents deserve respect but at the same time if they do something wrong or unfair you shouldn’t just think that’s ok just because they gave birth to you.. They’re only human and they can and do make mistakes… I would be happy for my future kids to be objective and not follow me like sheep just for the sake of it or out of some twisted sense of duty or loyalty.. would make me think they actually have a sense of right and wrong..