So I know at times it gets so frustrating when all month you are hoping for no visit from AF and then it does appear and you start thinking that you may never conceive…I know the feeling so well…and sometimes you think why me…why is everyone getting pregnant except me?!
However, after hearing about someone close to my friend my thoughts have changed…
So my friends aunty had a baby 3 months ago, all healthy and everything…no issues…she already had two girls…and this one was also a girl…last week that baby girl died unexpectedly…she gave her the feed and put her down to sleep…she went back after 1 hr and baby was blue from the lips…can u imagine the horror?
Post mortem has been done and they dont know the reason…but say its COT DEATH…imagine what that lady is going through? It gives me goosebumps everytime I think of it…
It has made me realise one thing though…I now pray to Allah paak…that take your time..I will be patient…but please when you give me that baby…please make sure its healthy with a long life inshallah ameen…
This also is a bit of an eye opener for those ppl who say they dont want a girl or a boy because they already have 2 boys or 2 girls etc…Truth is it doesnt matter about the gender…as long as the baby is healthy with a long life inshallah…
Re: Just a thought for all those ladies who are trying for a baby....
what a tragic incident
I now pray to Allah paak...that take your time..I will be patient...but please when you give me that baby...please make sure its healthy with a long life inshallah ameen.....
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Re: Just a thought for all those ladies who are trying for a baby....
Ameen.
this reminds me of a story I heard in the news recently. A punjabi sikh family had a daughter who was around 1.5 years old. They struggled through infertility and after many years and mulitiple treatments they conceived and had this baby girl.
This last month, the baby was standing in her own driveway at her home, when a family member was reversing his car and accidently ran over her and she passed away.