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My friend discussed this with her older sister and that's what she said..
Larka acha hai family achi hai..her larka aj kal aesa hi hota hai koi bhi Mard sirf biwi ka hokay nahi rehta ..aur Kia Pata Kal ko tumhara koi bhi hone wala husband kuch zyada hi agahy ho.
Agar koi rishta banana chahti hoo to in baton ko ignore karo .
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If you meet someone for the first time one tends to automatically compliment something about their looks, its just called being nice. Second time, also acceptable in my opinion but then again if you are meeting a potentials family, I wouldn't go about complimenting the bhabhis smile every time I meet her. That's just lame.
I think she should ignore it for now but if he continues to do so, she should just forget about him. Talking about it with him will just make everything weird.
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May be he’s into married women. 
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^ lol hareem...
Hadeel you are right...I will tell her to invite him and see if he still notice her bhabhi's smile .
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Why are some desi moms and sisters (and I've seen a few dads and bros) so despearate about getting married and remaining married that they resort to making comments like "Put up with it..if you want to get/stay married"..."Every guy is like that. That's just a fact of life. It could have been worse."
Sometimes these comments are valid...and other times just plain sad and pathetic coming from people who are soo close to you and expect better from.
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Rv... She says his family is nice and her family likes him...
Yes she can leave him and move on but she just want to make sure that if its just a comment then why should she let go a nice guy only because of a comment. And if he is chirchora or his comment sound weird that I will advice her same that leave him .
Kinzz, woh shadi larkay se kar rahi hai...ya....us ki "nice si, pyari si, achi si" family se?
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Kinzz, woh shadi larkay se kar rahi hai...ya....us ki "nice si, pyari si, achi si" family se?
Family is considered as a reflection of the guy 'could be'....... nowadays i think this doesn't apply a lot........ because the individuals are very different from others in the family......
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Family is considered as a reflection of the guy 'could be'....... nowadays i think this doesn't apply a lot........ because the individuals are very different from others in the family......
And I get that, Nomi...I understand that point. But what I don't agree with is placing most of the emphasis on just family ...and downplaying the guy...the acutal person you'll be marrying, the person who will have the greatest impact on your life.
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^ yes.....but this used to be the assessing mechanism......in absence of ''getting to know'' and all that stuff......... in Arrange Marriage system.......there are caveats like these...
Family dekho, Rishtedaar dekho, Larki ki maa, nahi to uski naani dekho.......so on and so forth ..
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ughhh…reminds me of this guy who kept saying “u have a very beautiful smile” and leering and just being a douche when all I did was thank him for giving me a seat 
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The guy shows chivalry…gives you a seat..compliments you on your smile…and you call him a douche 
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Hmmm, yeh tum ne bahut changi baat kahi hai, Nomi. 
Ab to sirf yeh dekhna hai if the guy’s baap, bhai, taaya, chacha, and daada also repeatedly compliment the bhabi/or other na-mahrams. If they do..then it’s a khaandani bemaari she’s gettting married into.
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wasn’t the girl ‘dating’ this guy??..no need…hop on to the next one 
PS…the maa,naani,khaala etc etc is only applicable for girls…
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She should be thorough and examine the poora tabbar! Koi kasar nahin chorni chahiye.
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Babhi - maah k bara'bar hote hai - what's wrong in complimenting a motherly figure :)
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Did I mention he followed me from 2 buses and INTO MY BUILDING
I said thank you to be polite nad flashed a polite smile. 's not my fault if the paindu thinks a smile means = HELLO HIT ON ME
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you didn’t mention…
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That’s awkward...
Bring him to me, and I’ll shove my fist up his nose, then we'll see if he complements her "bhabhi" again :) if he does, he's kwl and just being nice, if he doesn’t... bring him to me again... and this time... I'll set him straight:)
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Kinzz yaar tum bhi larke ke ghar ja ke uske kisi young male rishtedaar ki do teen daffa tareef kar do.
ok jokes apart....kisi ki tareef karna koi buri baat nahi...per uski kya intentions thi yeh khuda hi janta hai. tum us larke se koi mohabbat nahi kati ho na hi us main be-inteha dilchaspi rakhti ho is liye agar tumhe us ki yeh tareef wali baat se dil ko chain nahi araha phir behter hai ke tum kisi aur larke ka intekhaab karo takay agay tumhe koi problem na ho....all the best for u. :)
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Ok so today I was at her place.he came…
Her bhabhi came said Salam and when she left room he said.
Apki bhabhi Kia Hamesha isi trah hasti rehti hain???
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