if you haven’t physically met the person…is this safe, healthy, and/or acceptable?!
It depends Moona, there are some conclusions made which are based on the fact that one hasn't met a person. I think those types of conclusions are totally healthy and acceptable. However, there are other conclusions which are made by people, and which won't change regardless of a meeting or not. Conclusions which are based on exaggerated thoughts. I think those types of conclusions are unfair and baseless.
WHether you meet someone face to face or read their comments virtually, you can definitely make certain assumptions. I am assuming you two need to get a room, Quick!!!
Chaltahai, I believe you are jumping to conclusions.