Re: Judging someone on the basis
but it is in your interest if it’s a potential rishta or employee or business partner, right?
if it’s just an acquaintance or potential friend…I would trust my own instinct.
Re: the topic, I used to think it was pretty unfair to judge someone based on what someone else has said without even getting to know them. but as I’ve gotten older I’ve come to understand why it happens…I think at some point in life, most of us just dont’ have the time or energy to invest in someone, to “find out the truth” so to speak…so we trust the judgments of someone close to us
It may be cruel…but that’s why it happens.