What are the best ways of Judging someones personality? Off course the best choice will be to see them and talk. But if it is not possible and only medium of communication is email/phone/IM. What will be the key things you will be looking for? i.e. Writing style, Chain of thoughts, slangs etc etc.
Please share your personal experiences and how it turned out for the future relationship, if there was any.
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Hmm i think you can somewhat know about the person thru your interaction with them on chatting by their words, thoughts. But in some cases the person may be totally different from how he comes across on chat or how he might write. And its possible that he/she is not even pretending but just their writting style is different from what they might be in real. LOL, like my own siblings tell me that i come across much sweeter when i chat with them on net in comparison to face-face talking to them :). So ofcourse i dont and dont need to pretend to be sweet to them but i somehow come across like that to them so i guess writting style might at times give a different picture from the actual self :).
Its a must to meet the person in real if you might be thinking of having a relationship with them in oder to know the real them.
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Step into their shoes.
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^^ Its not possible all the time u know :)
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Why not?
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Step into their shoes.
What if their shoe size is smaller?
Maham, you do sound nice lol! How do I sound? haha
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^ lol, i dont know :D never interacted much with ya to try n "judge".
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I am not saying literally, playa. Try to think from their point of view than you'll understand how they think, react and understand situations.
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I am not saying literally, playa. Try to think from their point of view than you'll understand how they think, react and understand situations.
lol I know what you saying bro.
It's not always possible to think from their point of view in a long distance relationship (or so I think)?
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Well, you cannot determine things like whether they are clean, tidy, punctual etc...but opinions, views and openness say a lot.
For example, if you know or have been watching someone at Gupshup for a while, you can determine and judge their personality. Like their temper, humor, intellect and point of view.
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^^ Yea, this precisely my question is. That how you will determine someones's personality. Means what you will find in their writing to say if they are temperamental, funny, wise or some thing else.
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Lol..mujhay kisi anty ne advie di thi ..She said " kisi ko judge kernna ho tu unhey ghussay ki halat main dekho"...:)...I literally liked her advcie...its in islam too >>PROPHET PBUH said it...:)
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i would say its hard to judge someone's personality over the net....we all have different chatting styles..and some can express themselves better by writing..
anyways we did this color thingy at work which illustrates what color we are...and then we put it on our badges..istarah when someone looks at us they'll know how te deal with us..and isitaraah we will know how to deal with our associates....therefore..it makes easier for us to deal with them..and also it helps us to assign the right job to the right person..:P..
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It's hard to judge someone's personality over the net. Very hard. But with me, I don't really get deeply involved with anybody anyhow, but just talk to people who come across as honest, straightforward and basically nice. And the way I can tell is, the way they communicate and obviously what they say.
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agree with bkg... i posted a thread why men marry at all...its my sister-like best friend's story...certain ppl assumed it as mine and started commenting....
on net v are there for a fraction of time..to judge someone u have to come face to face...there's body language, gestures etc which could tell u a lot.
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You can tell a little bit about a person by their posts or the convo you have via msn/email/phone. You can get an idea of whether they are conservative, religious, funny, intelligent, serious, disrespectful, tempermental etc etc
However, one should still be careful because the person posting/chatting is not necessarily who they are in real life. They could still pretend to be someone they are not....maybe they are more open online and not in person. More aggressive online and not so much offline....more flirtacious online and not so much offline....and vice versa....you get my point.
in the end...it's always best to meet in person.
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I agreee:)...