Judging people...

How good are you in Judging people? Can you judge people when you see them first time?Or can you judge people from their face, personality, the way they speak etc?

Discuss…

I will add my personal comment later on, right now i am going to log-out; got some work to do first

Bye

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ok bye. when you have time to write IN YOUR post, WE SHALL FIND TIME TOO...

but on the other hand,,,,,,yeh we all judge, its human nature,

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I think my intuition has gotten stronger over the years. There have been times when my negative gut feeling about people have been right.......but I chose to give them the benefit of the doubt.....only to realize that I should have stuck with my gut feeling. I like analyzing people and situations because I have a strong interest in psychology.....and I think that helps in giving you a better understanding of people and their actions. You can't tell what someone is like based on facial features. HOWEVER, I think that paying attention to facial EXPRESSIONS and body language and actions will give you a better idea about the individual's personality/feelings/mood.

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I truly dont know if Im good or not. I do know that I have learned to see people for myself rather then judge them based on someone else's opinion.

I always give people the benefit of doubt and am nice to them until they do/say something to hurt me or someone else I care for. You're basically innocent until proven guilty in my court. Until someone has proven their trustworthiness to me though, they dont really receive all of my confidence. Meaning, there is no way someone will know all of my deepest, darkest secrets until I KNOW they're my friend...and that takes a while.

Does that make me a good judge of character? I dont know. All I can say is, I do everything I can to protect myself from drama and dramatic people. :)

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I used to think that I was good at judging people by their behavior unitl recently when some of my intuitions turned out to be wrong.........I don't think we should judge people just based on few encounters. I also over analyze everything....which I believe is wrong

I know some people are so dramatic and their dramas hurt everyone around them

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The natural course of life is that you meet people, you either like them, dislike them, love them, hate them and then based on those feelings you decide on building relationships. You're wrong just as much as you're right - never forget.

yes I can.

In less then a sec. Thanks for me working on a store and puting up with ppl all the time.

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^oh my God…I just noticed that you are a mod of life and relationship forum…:eek:

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lolzzz
I know ehh till yesterday I was common person like hmmmm ur self now :snooty:

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^yay…you are part of famous cool crowd at GS (like that even exist :snooty:)

p.s. congrats…how come they didn’t open a sticky

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there is one in life3 :snooty:

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I noticed it after I wrote the post…Mr. one of the cool people of GS (whatever)…:snooty: