Judging people, no time to love them

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Just wanted to share this story with you guys… is pretty interesting… some of you have probably read it before… received it as a chain letter

This will really touch Ur heart !!!

Last night you and your best friend had a fight.
Y
ou decide not to talk to her the next day.

She smiles at you.

You grind your teeth at her.

She tells her friends nice things about you.

You spread bad rumors about her.

She tries to come and talk to you.

But you push her aside.

She thinks you are a great friend.

You think she is a terrible friend.

She writes nice notes to you, telling you about the best times you shared

together. You write about all the bad times you can remember experiencing

together.

Deep down you know shes sorry.

But all you have is hate.

The next day you find a note. It reads:

Dear -------------,

I tried to tell you yesterday, but you didnt let me speak,

I tried to tell you good things,but you were afraid to hear them.

I tried to smile at you, to take away the hate.

But now its time to tell you, even though its a bit late. That i am

dying.

I have a bad condition and it is getting worse. Im sorry to

have to tell you that i wont be able to see you today. I wrote

this to you today in the hospital.

My time is up.

Im sorry i should have told you sooner.

Im really sorry about our argument,you are such a great friend.

I promise i shall watch over you,

Lots of love

You run to the hospital to tell her you are sorry,

But only her mum is left.

Her hand clasped over her face.

And she was crying. Down on her knees she prays, for her daughter to come

back.

You are too late.

You wish you told her sorry sooner and got to say goodbye.

All friends have their ups and downs, and sometimes you need to say

sorry… Dont wait for the other person to do it first.

Because you never know what could happen.

If you really love your friends and would watch down on them when you pass

away, please send this on and show people that you really have a heart.

Even if you send this to 1 person only. You still have a heart.

However, if you dont send this to anyone…i can tell you that when you

need help, no one will be there for you because they will not remember

this letter.

Im thankful you are my friend!

If you judge people, you have no time to love them.

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Re: Judging people, no time to love them

Sabriya786,

as pure as the lesson of this anedote is and thanks for telling it here..
not everyone is that kind of a friend who realizes own mistake, very bad mistake and rushes back to exhonerate ownself of the neglect and degradation with which he/she mistreated a said friend or companion.

judging someone cannot be done with loving someone.
the two just do not make a conducive environment for regard and confidence in the friendship to hold each other together, be it among close friends, or between two people.

gratitude is one the most delicate and strong human feelings. not all people have the ability to shoulder it and return it.

it will be a pleasant surprise if the one who does not show it earlier, does so later, but soon.
but that is about it.
in friendship, there is no place for ignoring or holding down one person.
Dushwari

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Re: Judging people, no time to love them

hmmm… :chai:

Paindoo list...
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I'm not sending it to anyone. Does that make me heartless?

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if MY "friends " need LETTERS to remind them of ME ..........they r gonna be dead be4 their time .....:ASA:

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Re: Judging people, no time to love them

idiotic story ... people on the net making these kinda false stories and playing with soft hearts like you !!!

The destiny of the type of these emails is Trash bin... no need to waste time in reading and thinking ... spend your time in some positive and real work... wake up!

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Re: Judging people, no time to love them

Looks you like killing people.

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i do …:blush:

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That makes two of us. :-)