Suppose I am a spouse (which I actually am). What should I do if my daily life jokes have become repetitive and aren’t funny anymore, but my wife might at times force herself to a fake laugh to not break my heart and try her best to look natural.
How do spouses differentiate between cheap and not so cheap, good naughty and not so good naughty jokes after they run short of the stock of good light jokes.
Please advise “not too personal” daily life jokes that can help in bringing more smiles to a spouse’s face.
p.s. I am not talking of the kind of jokes that are found in any online jokes section or on buses and trucks, but funny comment one can come up with (naturally) during a conversation.
Does that come naturally to you, or you are predetermined to share it and waiting for the right time to share it in a way as if it came naturally to you. =)
Please share examples…
p.s.2 As you see I have failed miserably in making anyone smile through this thread. That is the problem, bad sense of humor, so need help…
well between me n hubby its totally natural
we love teasing each other (that doesnt mean we hurt each other)
wat i do is i read/search husband/wife jokes or jokes related to his professions (he is doc) share it wid him....they r always halarious.....i am not so gud wid remembering jokes but ma hubby is.....he never repeats his jokes :P
wen i dont like any joke i straight up tell him it wasnt funny....but after like 10 sec start laughing.... :P or pretend that i still waiting for the end hahahaha
that jst tease him more
Suppose I am a spouse (which I actually am). What should I do if my daily life jokes have become repetitive and aren't funny anymore, but my wife might at times force herself to a fake laugh to not break my heart and try her best to look natural.
How do spouses differentiate between cheap and not so cheap, good naughty and not so good naughty jokes after they run short of the stock of good light jokes.
Please advise "not too personal" daily life jokes that can help in bringing more smiles to a spouse's face.
p.s. I am not talking of the kind of jokes that are found in any online jokes section or on buses and trucks, but funny comment one can come up with (naturally) during a conversation.
Does that come naturally to you, or you are predetermined to share it and waiting for the right time to share it in a way as if it came naturally to you. =)
Please share examples....
p.s.2 As you see I have failed miserably in making anyone smile through this thread. That is the problem, bad sense of humor, so need help...
husband is always make in a mood of making/telling jokes. he makes funny comments on everything. he used to watch pakistani stage dramas and have leanrt to make jugats. he just comes up when he is talking.
at dinner we all discuss our day and tell everyone jokes.
i think you have to be in good mood.
but not all people are good at making/telling jokes.
STP A sense of humour has to be natural and not forced...thats probly why she not laughing any more cos she can sense its an "effort" you are making. If you dont have a sense of humour naturally dont push it. Just be relaxed and try subtle complimenting/flattering instead...perhaps if you are up to it...a little flirting (yes with your wife) does wonders!!
Do they do not sell SOH Elixir at your local pharmacy ? If they do buy a bottle of it and take half a tea spoon of it empty stomach every morning.
Is it about her being bored or you trying to work too hard to make her laugh ? You do not have to put effort into it. Just relax , stress will cause brain freeze , in case you do not know it is a term which is used when your brain refuses to come up with new ideas , jokes or stories . Give it a rest and your brain will get charged again.
like aly said, humor comes naturally to you, and forcing it would be even worse than the repetitive jokes... I guess you should watch a lot of comedy central, the late night talk shows might help too, if you're comfortable joking about politics and all...
Take her shoe shopping...works every time :biggthumb
Yep. I think I should do that now, because I just came to know from her that she read my first post of this thread, and she is angry at me because she thinks that I have a good sense of humor and she never made a fake laugh at my jokes, to make me happy. She said she says it to me when my joke is not funny. In fact she also reminded me the times when she thought my joke was not funny enough and she told it to me immediately...=)
Yep. I think I should do that now, because I just came to know from her that she read my first post of this thread, and she is angry at me because she thinks that I have a good sense of humor and she never made a fake laugh at my jokes, to make me happy. She said she says it to me when my joke is not funny. In fact she also reminded me the times when she thought my joke was not funny enough and she told it to me immediately...=)
OK situation is critical...you need to buy her a pair of boots!! :D
Yep. I think I should do that now, because I just came to know from her that she read my first post of this thread, and she is angry at me because she thinks that I have a good sense of humor and she never made a fake laugh at my jokes, to make me happy. She said she says it to me when my joke is not funny. In fact she also reminded me the times when she thought my joke was not funny enough and she told it to me immediately...=)
Red alert. Buy her halki wali chappal , bhari boot ziada zor say lagain gay.:D
STP: I appreciate your effort to make your wife smile. I think its a very sweet gesture. i am also blessed with a husband, who, Alhamdulillah, is always trying to make me smile. he says the silliest stuff ever, just so he can hear me laugh. And it comes naturally to him, he has a humorous personality. So like others said, dont try to force yourself. Let yourself shine through and you will be surprised wht you come up with.