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why dont you just bring it up like you would to a friend but instead of discussing the rishta implications talk about how much you want out or how you hate your apartment and dont fancy another couple years there?
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gayee bhains phir panee mei.. ovaries and cervical mucous. just roll rotis, pal. forget the rest.
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If you are having to choose between a job where you may be tied up for a few years (like 2 yrs) vs. a possible rishta that hasn't yet made up his mind, and you've just recently found him, and you want to give it a chance...but you know it needs to be more than 2 wks before any decisions are made...
then which do you pick?
Women, would you forgo a job offer that locks you in for two years to wait for someone to make up their mind, so that if they do, you can move easily within the two years?
Quoting from some series - 'Choices are sacrifices, inevitably that means giving up something that you want for something that you want more.'
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I thought ticking biological clock was a myth. Thus the reason why women in the western world chose to have kids later than sooner. So I am not saying to wait till 50 but late 30s, early 40s is okay - no?
Since I am a man what do I know.. enlighten us o'wise one.
Men shouldn't really be giving their opinions, as they do not have ovaries or ticking biological clocks/timebombs.
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Opt for a thing which you are sure of rather than of something you are not sure of.
in this scenario you have a job in your hand but you are not certain about the guy so better take up the job and let the nature takes its own course. and who knows may be you can land up a guy who you find much more adorable and cuter.
Job or Possible Rishta
If you are just starting the relationship and getting to know him, assess how long it could take. I would go for the career and if something happens to pan out with this person which could also take up to a year well assess it at that time but don't hold yourself back from opportunities for what ifs. If you've worked so hard for these opportunities then go for it, while your still getting to know this person. ^what queer and ED said.
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Honestly go for the guy. Opportunities might come again but good guys do not last forever on the market !!!
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go for the JOB
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Id say give the rishta a try. You can always get a job, because your qualifications are not going anywhere. But your age is!
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One word: Rishta.