Re: jin pe takya tha wohi pattay hawa dene lagay…
cold coffee? woh bhee is thanday mosam mein? nai nai zukam ho jaye ga
[thinking: mein ne toh takallufan offer kee thee ye sahab toh phayl hi gayay 
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Re: jin pe takya tha wohi pattay hawa dene lagay…
aaaah hmmmm
Re: jin pe takya tha wohi pattay hawa dene lagay…
Main in mu’aziz rukan ki ta’eed karta hoon.
Qibla cousin sahab/sahiba kia Charas peetey hoey pakre gai ? 
Ma’af kejeeye ga agar taba-e-nazuk pe giraan guzra ho, main mizah farma raha tha (j/k) 
Re: jin pe takya tha wohi pattay hawa dene lagay...
Irem, I guess you're right. It's not easy to grow up like that. People keep changing, so does time keep changing. I think it's a matter of timeas well... It's not only about setting your goals, but knowing how to reach them. Fixing up right and wrong ideas about how something actually should be, and how not.. makes living life a lot easier. But if we are not being given the right examples by our elder ones, it makes you feel insecure about what's right and what's wrong.
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you resort to telling yourself to just accept them with those habits and develop more tolerance... and you try your best to do that... but then you've held so strongly to those beliefs of "right" and "wrong" for so long that it becomes difficult to reconcile everything...to accept them fully and whole heartedly you must accept those habits of theirs too...so you have to tell yourself that maybe its not "so bad" to do that... coz u feel that how can you love someone fully when you keep thinking that certain things they do are so bad? i feel like when u like someone u have to love them and accept them 100%
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I totally agree with you over here... We need to accept people the way they are because we love them. But what hurts the most is that, if we are willing to accept those people the way they are, do anything for them, why can't they realise how much we care... Let me stick to the example of alcohol: Someone you love more than anything on this world is addicted to alcohol... You are willing to do anything he would say... then why he can't do a single thing... I am not saying people should immediatly stop... I know it's hard to change your lifestyle... but a single try would be enough to show they care as well...