Jihaliyaet lessons from society's 'nnoorrmmmss"

thoughts that pertain to lessons learnt by giving off of the self.
shared for those who might be at the verge of losing themselves as living people who are sensitive to unfairness.

welcome to add othersimilar lessons.

You cannot be good out of the goodness of your heart, to those who are gping to snap back at you, for the justice-seeking you do for them…
you cannot become emotional cushion for anyone. who does not know that emotions work two-way and on the principle of fair give and take.
You cannot set enable anyone to undo your person, because then it is not about You, but it is about what use are you to the others.
You must not build any relationship, especially the ones based on false promises.
You cannot believe anyone to be true, unless they PROVE themselves as people who know that dignity is in following through.

Re: Jihaliyaet lessons from society's 'nnoorrmmmss"

adding two more:

say what is on your mind, to be honest to your self and to others.
just say it!

do not wait to take an action that is required now or else, you will feel very sorry for having taken your good old time and having delayed soemthing into lateness.