Re: Jethani....or lack thereof.
I mean just little things about her are weird and all she is doing is pushing us all away from her instead of making us like her. Oh yeah and on a separate note, after one year of marriage, she moved her husband back to the town where her parents live. Is that normal ? To leave your in-laws to move back to your parents town. She made her husband quit his job, leave his parents and move from one state to move to her parent's town (a different state) - ONE YEAR AFTER MARRIAGE !
Woah hold on. Here I disagree with you. I've seen lots of girls move in with their in-laws, or to another state/country where their husband's family is, and then after a year or two you see the girls and their husbands moving back to the girl's hometown or home city/country. I personally don't see any problem with that.
I think you're worrying a bit too much about matters that frankly concern your brother in law and his wife. The whole where-they-choose-to-live is not a decision YOU make, its THEIR decision. If her husband is okay with it, who are you to complain?