Re: Jealousy
I think SOMETIMES it's good to look at other people and compate yourself to people who are doing better than you - it makes ME (atleast) strive to do better. Go back to school, work harder on my kids, read more namaz etc
But jealousy is the most unproductive thing you can do. I think you can take the same energy and drive yourself to do something better for yourself
At the end of the day if you are content - who cares who has the biggest wedding, car or house.