Re: Jealousy
Guys, I think it is about trust. Think about it...you're not with your husbands all the time are you? You need to be able to trust him.
Also, here is something I can attest to: if I really care about someone, I will not talk to any other guy. No matter how hard a guy tries, it will not change my emotions/feelings. At some point, I will shut this other person out due to loyalty to my SO. It is completely within my control.
Now, if I hesitate to shut him out, he will sense it and that will be his green light to keep pursuing me.