Hey..
I was curious ( as always:p )
To guys : do u prefer women who get jealous quickly and show interests about the places u go to, and the ppl u go out with? whenever u meet another lady , they ask u about ur impression and all those things?
To girls : the same about jealousy and to add, do u like those types of guys who ask u to have permission from them when u go out to any place, even to the market:halo:
Would u both think it’s a lack of trust? or it’s love and care?
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there's a fine line between jealousy which is attractive and obsessiveness, which is just a turn-off
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I agree wid ya.
Askin every now n then is OK but if u r constantly on someone’s back then soon divorce papers are through the letterbox…
Both have right to have their space.
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its a two-way street.. if u want a girl that doesnt get jealous if u meet/talk other girls, the guy should be doing the same.. simple..
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agreed.
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Right on faizy :k:
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like i always say....a little bit of jealousy is always healthy. "little" being the operative word.
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Jealousy is never good - jealousy shows a lack of trust.
And trust is the bedrock of marriage.
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Jealousy to me means insecurity and lack of trust.
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I dont believe jealousy shows you care...i agree with those who say its insecurity and lack of trust...
The only time i asked questions was when the girl made me feel i couldnt trust her and had me worried...luckily i dropped it and avoided the stress...
But in situations where i trust the girl...i wont check up as such...ill ask her what shes upto and what shes doing but thats not me checking up its just me asking...if you care then you'll communicate...accusing me isnt showing me love...trusting me is...
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...insecurities and lack of trust, leave at the door.
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i trust her.simple as that. 
no issues of insecurities / lack of trust. :k:
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jealousy hurts both partnerss
no point..
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I trust him
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lol...who knows what he's doing in canada...anyway thats it for me...I'm out!
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Yes...there shud be a tinsyyy winsy bit of jealousy. It increases love.
Aisha r.a. used to get jealous when Prophet pbuh talked about khadija r.a. hehe :p
Thats cute jealousy, not over obsessed posessive jealousy! (most people today fall into this category).
And I don't know about it being a two way street...if you let this habit go loose, it cud become a problem...then you can start faking it that you "don't care''. But its human nature to be jealous, you can't control that...
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Aisha r.a. used to get jealous when Prophet pbuh talked about khadija r.a. hehe :p
Thats cute jealousy, not over obsessed posessive jealousy! (most people today fall into this category).
And I don't know about it being a two way street...if you let this habit go loose, it cud become a problem...then you can start faking it that you "don't care''. But its human nature to be jealous, you can't control that...
we are always on the same page :D
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whats really good is that...when you get jealous, and your significant other, or sometimes even with friends, they notice you're getting jealous...and then do all these cute things to make you feel better again........
no wonder it increases love :D
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Welllllll coz he ain’t like you and ur firends , woh shareef hai
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Askin every now n then is OK but if u r constantly on someone's back then soon divorce papers are through the letterbox....
Both have right to have their space.
agreed.