thanks for the answers!!!
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Of all the petty things in this world …
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Lifes too short...end of
I can see how it'd get annoying but seriously there's more important things to worry about in life. Just live and let live.
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LOL there is an easy solution to the prob ... either of the sister should have a kid frst and then ask for the other one to beat that ... as soona s u find out the other one is having a kid u try to have one again ... in the end X is gonna stop after 2-3 and Y would have +1 and she'll get her superiority from kids and X will have the other one off her back ... there ya go problem solved
lol…what a post…x + y= z 
life is too short to spoil it for such petty issues…so basically x=good sis and y=bad sis…but one thing i dont understand is that why x is so sure of y being jealous of her…i mean all the things mentioned in the post…was x noticing them all the way…excuse me…but i find x more paranoid in this scenario!!!
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holy cow
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I understand your annoyance but try to ignore these things...dont pay attention to her much and she will be fine.
Also, maybe she feels like what she has isnt good enough? Compliment her once in a while.
I wonder if you're Sister X in this story.
1) Sister X can realize that she can't control what Y does. And when you can't control a situation......you try changing your perspective because you have greater control over your own reaction and state of mind. That said.......instead of getting annoyed.....why doesn't Sister X think remind herself of the classic saying, "Imitation is be the best form of flattery"???
^Also....if Sister X is annoyed that Y is being a "copy cat".......she needs to understand that no idea is really original. That she's not the ONLY woman in the world who has held a party for her husband....or received a diamond ring...etc. These are ordinary, mundane, moreover inane, things to get worked up over. I have a younger sister.....and sometimes I'll "copy/try" out her ideas...and she'll "copy/try" out mine.......and neither of us seems to care....because there's no competition there. In fact, my sister will keep an eye out of for something that I may like and I do the same for her. You guys are sisters....not enemies. So, in order for this problem to go away...maybe you need to work on making your relationship stronger.
2) If X can't change her perspective from being annoyed to flattered and laid back....if it bothers her that much to be copied.......then maybe she shouldn't share so many details about her life with Y. But I think that has it's negative consequences as well....because family members can get more "offended" if they feel that you're "hiding" things from them. That said...it's better to adopt a positive attitude and work on strengthening the relationship.
^I wonder if it's something that the parents are unknowingly doing that has caused a competition to take place b/w the two sisters. For example, perhaps the parents compliment X more than Y. If X (is the older of the two) and has noticed this....then maybe she can secretly bring it up with her parents...and get them to be more encouraging of Y. X can compliment Y as well (as Reha suggested above).
**3) **Neither X nor Y or going to take their cars and their rings and their gold and fancy clothes and their dainty china with them....to their graves....when they die. In the end, it's the relationships that matter most in life....because if they are strained....they bring about a lot of stress. If they are strong....they bring happiness....even if there's a lack of material luxuries. Plus this negative attitude in both the women...is not healthy for their mental/physical/spiritual well-being. It's not good for your iman. I think we all have our internal issues...but realizing them and trying to fight them...is a part of life.
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in punjabi the word used is "reese" for the people who compare their lives with others .
If you want to have a peaceful life, it better to kick X and Y out of your life. All X an Y do is use other people, but if you tell em that this is wrong, instead of fixing it they gang up against you.
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Sister X should kill sister Y.
Problem solved. :D
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Y is X's sister.........thats what she suppose to do.......annoy her as much as possible
You should inform X that she is lacking in her sisterly duties..........
Sister X should get a job.
If sister X already has a full time job, then she should explore the option of getting a 2nd job OR find some new hobbies.
Bottom Line:
Sister X has too much free time on her hands....that's why she's wasting her energy on such petty issues.
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You guys need to learn more letters of the alphabet.
How about the two sisters spend more time together? Rather than vying for each others attention.
Here is a solution for you
Girl, 14, killed sister in row over boyfriend
ok reason might be different but solution is same 
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you're welcome