See, you are jealous and you are a DIL. You will become a mother in law someday too inshallah, this thing of jeolousy starts with girls and builds on as you grow older. And plus jealousy in general, us girls do become jealous very easily. This habit of jealousy starts when we are young and in school and we go fish for friends. There is a competition and everyone wants to be in the cool crowd and those who are there the other girls get jealous from them. Then you go to university and start getting jealous watching the girls who are more rich then you etc etc finally you come to relationships and wedding.
See if you have an understanding nature you wont get jealous of your MIL. So it is just not jealousy that is the matter here.
aisha it is easier said then done.. i guess ure not married rite.. wait till u do! :) I do not agree that women are jealous from their youth. I have never been jealous of anyone's fame, money, popularity etc....to me the last time I envied(note envy not jealous) was when my friend told me how great her mom in law was.
when you will be DIL and you will see small and big situations popping out you will know it is but natural to be jealous but atleast DIL ki jealousy itni destructive nahi hoti.... thaz my thinking...