Re: Jahez questions ...
well that is what happened when i got married....moved to usa abt 6 months after marriage. the only thing i brought with me were my clthes. my mamoon and father in law told my mother not to make anything too. and we were able to use all jahez money in usa. even though my phoopis told my mum that she should have made jahez!!!!
i tell u it wud have rotten in pakistan and i wud never have seen it.
but i agree jahez is a burden on parents. in islam all things come from husband ....thats why in saudia men cannot get married bcz girls father demand 300,000 riyals or so to sell their daughters. we humans are so good at buisness.