Jahaiz (dowry) aik la'nat hai?

Re: Jahaiz (dowry) aik la'nat hai?

They were showing a documentary last night on CTV where guys go to desiland to get married, get all the jahaiz and leave the girl hanging. Although, I liked the idea..I don't think it should be encouraged. Which generation is going to take a stand? I don't see it changing..everybody gives in under social pressure.