I've been the same for the last month and I'm not getting married till August.. My poor family! All my friends have started practicing dances and I cry watching them. I cry at silly tv programmes and cheesy Bollywood films..
awww :) its is normal, inshallah you will have awesome life, just read darood when you feel like crying, keep yourself busy with wedding stuff to keep your mind off the sad part of getting married. Inshallah all will be fine in couple of weeks!!try and enjoy one of the best times of your life.
It is not just you. I am also getting married inshallah in under 5 weeks and i do not feel cryful so much but stressesd at times and just a bit anxious. I want to marry my fiancee and i love him sooo much but it is thought that nervousness and shakiness of strating a new life.However it is also an exciting time as well. Just try and keep yourself calm and dont stress yourself and read dua. if you are really stressed out about it then talk to someone very close to you and you you trust that will give you good advice. Just make dua at all times. Inshallah it will all be fine and you will begin a whole new life full of more happiness and joy with your husband to be.
Good luck with the wedding and married life inshallah.
AWWWWWWWWWWWW thnx hunnies, i have been a lil calm, just trying to clear my stuff up and keep myself busy, mehndi is this week n im actually lost and confused lol
mum n dad have happy faces on so im tryna keep happy too coz if i have another crying fit it might get them started lol
HIYA, im the same. lately i start crying for absolutly no reason. and then the next dya il be ok, and then il cry again the day after. its really an emotional time and the thought of leaving my mum dad and going to live with a bunch of strangers ( even though they are my relatives still feel strangers to me) is just getting too much....so i cry. but then i hear his voice or he sends me a nice text which makes me smile.
just to upset me even more iv put weight on at the rong time lol, iv spent weeks tryna slim the belly down n was doing well till just now i saw my belly and itz horrible!
y does it feel as if things ar messed up??
im jus gna stop eating :(
hey, i know what you mean. i get the same feeling.
u have to eat, just eat less. whens ur wedding?
REMEMBER your fiance doesnt give a **** whether ur skinny or curvy or whatever, its the women around us that drive us nuts with all the dieting advice, trust me, your fiance whose the main man here, wont give a monkeys....
i know Nadz, itz the women in my house that gave me a complex abt my weight n height in the 1st place lol a few days ago they were like ' hai hai kitni patli hogayi ho, put some weight on' :S a few bloody months ago i was told to loose it lol,
im getting married next week, i stay at home now so no gym so i do watever workout i can fit in durin the day,
Fiance thinks iv become a looney lol
p.s. being skinny doesnt suit my face, i look like a booth lol with the high cheekbones all sucked in lol
awww! this time last yr i was the same, for me it was the hardest most saddest part of my life, i would cry everyday, wen my dad said something sweet, if i heard a song, i would sit by myself and stare at my house & remember stories from my childhood- proper filmy stuff lol so dont worry, try to enjoy ur last month at home, spend as much time as you can with ur family.. inshallah your new life will bring you lots of happiness! xx
EXACTLY...its the women who drive us mad...god i get mad just thinking about it. they just wont leave us alone will they, and they are the first to comment on how bad/fat/nlack/sily/spotty you look however do these people pass complments as easily? no. compliments are in the form of....
if you have lost weight ( which is what they intended) rather than saying you look slim or great, theyl say `are you ill? why you look pale, whats wrong, are you starving urself, put some weight on...etc etc
erghhhhhhhhh lol what makes em like that lol
weddings next week and i duno how im gna make the belly go down...any tips anyone???
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eat lesss....... have cereals for ur breakfast which has bran......have ur dinner early by eight in the evening.......and after every meal....walk for around an hour or a bit more....n try to sweat.....with exercise ull sweat n it will make ur skin glow....n remeber to wash off the sweat.....n drink lots of water..............n more importantly.......walk n talk with ur belly pulled in...it will pain for few minutes.....n its hard...just take few breaths n then itll b ok...models and me swear by this method........eat a balanced diet but cut out sweetts n a bit of oily food till the wedding.....n after that too......but u can completely cut out on sweetts........n drink loads of water.......have two or three porton of vegetables n fruits ...preferaably bolied vegetable....cooked in in little oil...a teaspoon of it......n have a good night sleep...sleep and water n exercise is really important for ur skin n body......hope it helped.....