It's me again! Come on advise pls

[Bobby1]

Re: It’s me again! Come on advise pls

@nadz123

So many of you remember me. The crazy one. Well it’s been a while and I was going through a issue recently again and decided to ask on here.
Things are ok. I think I’m suffering from anxiety that’s what it seems to be. From my previous posts if you remember maybe you think the same.
So nothing big has happened. I’m back in Pakistan and working! !! I love my job here and I love the environment I work in. So I assumed that would be enough for me to feel better.
I do at times but still things mil says to me the littlest things bug me. Recently my husband had a row with his sister and his sister stopped talking to me and still soon talking properly to me I’m hurt thar she thought I filled his head or something. It really upset me because I felt we were genuine friends. And mil is always being petty. Like whys there so many dishes in the sink or why isn’t this in its right place or why isn’t that done that way blah blah blah and she never says anything to her daughter. I know it’s petty but it makes the environment negative and I feel at unease. Maybe my anxiety makes each situation seem worse. But I feel hatred towards mil and sil now.
My mil had issues with her leg and she had acupuncture daily this week and has Ben given some oil to apply on her legs which my husband applies. And I hate him tending to his mother. Why should he massages her why not her fave daugher or other son. Just these thoughts eat me up. The fact that he knows our issues makes me want my husband to complete ignore his mother and sil.
How can I tackle this.

In restaurants when a patron is being mean people suspect that staff spits in their food. You don’t have anxiety they need to give respect to get respect.