^ thanks alot :) yup my sister said just stop it and if brothers come to know about it they ll bury you alive.At this time m really trying throwing it out of my brain because it is disturbing my life alot .At this age i started thinking y m going through all this and conditions were not favourable though.he told me his parents want him get married and i was like me? No not right now at least i wanna give it a chance . I really wanna see if love really exist it won't die even after i stop talking to him and i have already stopped talking to him daily at least :( may Allah give him strength and a great life in sha Allah :) to be honest i have a v small heart and i feel too bad when i have to say goodbye :) anyways sometimes we have to do somethings with a smile on face for our good and others's :)
You mentioned in the other topic you want to go to med school? So just focus on ur studies. You havent met this guy. Things could be very different when you meet. Right now you need to come out this bubble of love and just focus on ur life. I watched my sister go through this sigh at the age of 16 she was obssesd at pne point and i put it down to teengae hormones and being naive. But it effected everything so glad shes over it now at uni and socialising more with people face to face and not online!
While you might think this is love it may not be. Its so easier to express things in writing but when your with someone in person its totally different. Just be strong and move forward
And to be honest you honestly think any family will be like heyyyy ok! Lets get the shaadi done if you tell them u love a guy that you have never even met?'
@bella shabba! Yeah i know :) in sha Allah life will be good i know but the way he keeps calling me . I just feel sick after it i can't concentrate on whatever i was doing :( i really wanna get outta it.if things will go like this he won't forget me either. And yeah my said it is not possible. The time i started the relationship i didn't think about things the way i m thinking today as i never wanna go far away from mum dad . But at least i want him to tell my parents if he can make me happy :) at least once! So that i don't regret in future. I really need help. I have not so many frends and in real i never ever talk to boys. I m trying to stay more n more busy. I m new to gs as well. I joined just to know what ppl think about it. How to leave him? I know love is nothing and i m never gonna love again :(
Dear OP, i personally think you are living in a delusional state of mind.
1. You are too young to be thinking of marriage right now.
2. Everything that glitters is not gold.
3. Life has not dealt you any serious hardship as yet. It would be a shame to see you splurge it all away on a feministic fantasy whim.
4. personally i believe you dont live in a state where reality and objectivity prevails....you need help and counselling.
Life is not a bed of roses. Infactuation is what you have. You are not and i repeat NOT in love. You have conditioned your mind to believe that he is your knight in shining armour whilst you know not the first thing about him. This world is full of mysogynistic scoundrels who prey on naive little girls such as yourself.
In the end the ball is in your court, but my two cents worth is to put your big girl panties on and move on.
