That is the exact quote from one of your guppans. Supposedly lying is a-okay if its for keeping her happy. But its not okay any other time.
So when you say she is beautiful and she is not its fine. When you say her big old butt is not big that is fine. But when you say “hey honey i was out with the boys at a bar” when you were infact out with some hoochie mama’s its not fine.
Go figure. In all cases you are lying to make sure she is happy.
What a smart guppan! She's trying to impart those morsels of wisdom that men have spent centuries trying to acquire. She's knows much - maybe she can even join the ranks of your Brotherhood of the Brosephs.