i have a relative and we’re very very close…
recently they got married…
and i couldnt make it to their wedding…
thats ofcourse a big big deal…that i couldnt make it to their wedding…i mean everyone expected me to be there…and i wanted to be there…
but there were some majbooryaan i had related to my family…and i jus could not go…it wasnt possible…
i know that person was really missing me on their wedding…and i was thinking in my mind, i wish i was there…the whole family was saying irem should have been there…
i dint even call to them congratulate them…i dint even mail a card…
i dint know what to say…and i was too embarrassed that i wasnt there…
i emailed…a small email…weeks after the wedding…to say congrats…
i know how much it had hurt them that i wasnt there…but they dint reply to my mail with complaints…they could have said im not talking to u i am naraz…or…ab kyun mail kar rai ho? or something like that…which would have made me feel even much much worse…but…they made it easy on me…and jus said “irem its ok. dont feel bad u were not there. its ok. koi gal nai 
apna khayal rakhna bas.”
