that it is part of job of female receptionists, waitresses, air hostesses, nurses…etc. to put a fake smile on their face along with soft voice while dealing with strangers who stare at them with immoral gaze, consider them sexual objects and find out ways to talk to them even when they don’t need to…
May Allah (s.w.t) bless us towards the right path.
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So.. you're a female receptionist, waitress, air hostess, or nurse?
Last time I looked, not everyone oogles a woman who has a career.
The only people that do that are those who demean women and don't think they have a place in the working world and that they're "playing," at being professional and thus objectifying them.
So no. Not every woman experiences that. Most women experience far better things. Please don't follow this slippery slope. I see where you're heading with this. It's not relevant.
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-i only smile if i'm in a good mood and/or like that person,
-my voice is more likely to wish someone they were deaf
-noone stares at me with immoral gazes... more like w/ annoyance/hatred :D
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during the summer break, while i was travelling to pakistan in Emirates, the angrez hostess was very angry at some passenger and was murmuring "God I hate this job"....
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haha lolz @ armughal
on a serious note i have seen girls changing their voices while being on fone :\
during the summer break, while i was travelling to pakistan in Emirates, the angrez hostess was very angry at some passenger and was murmuring "God I hate this job"....
I wonder if u and i were on the same plane? I was on the receiving end of an irate stewardess who wanted me to move out of her way but wasnt good at communicating it. She flew off the handle, so i proceeded to lecture her in my best surrey accent, and then asked for a customer complaint form!
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where were you going to and from where?
that it is part of job of female receptionists, waitresses, air hostesses, nurses...etc. to put a fake smile on their face along with soft voice while dealing with strangers who stare at them with immoral gaze, consider them sexual objects and find out ways to talk to them even when they don't need to...
May Allah (s.w.t) bless us towards the right path.
If thats the job of female stewardesses, I would argue that it is the job of MALE PIA air stewards to single out women and openly flirt with them, ignore male passengers, and females to do vice versa.
It is not fair to single out female workers for this only. And NOT all female workers in the above mentioned fields put on fake smiles and soft voices, this is a complete generalisations. I would imagine that its thoughts like this that lead to the reported banning of women from working in Aghanistan, and then see the plight of them, they were reduced to begging in the streets.
where were you going to and from where?
Dubai to Karachi.
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oh alright...
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It is uncomfortable for some, but most do it with quite an air of comfort. And if you put it as a mask people may wear, some house holds are even far far better at that.
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yeah so true:emmy: they cant even kick asses cuz its not a part of their job