I like to keep things simple, cos thats kinda what i am.
Now man and women each have thier own duty to do. Admee kee apnee jaga hain… aur auraath kee apnee jagaa
To ilustrate this point picture it this way.
You cannot wear your shalwar like a kameez and your kameez like a shalwar.
Both are made up of the same material and tailored by the same maker… however each has it’s own role.
You cant mix up shalwar to kameez so dont mix up the roles of men and women… you know your duty so just do it!
I believe its one of the stereotyped concept that "western men" has spread all over. I am not gona buy it.
When we talk about women, I believe she has rights to live .. the way she wants to but under the limits that our religion has posed upon her. most of us pose our decisions on her because we are brought up with this concept that women are your slave and i hate this concept.
If she wants to study, let her .. if she wants to do a job .. let her.
If you want to think about women then think the way ISLAM has asked to .. give her respect ISLAM has asked for .. and treat her the way ISLAM has asked for and then you will realize .. its not a men world. Its a balanced .. between men and women .. .. that's why it has spice in it .. :)
what a super analogy
Believe me this is the simplest and deatiled one and someone can easily do PHd while submitting this article
Faris u shud post it as separate thread and post in ur blog …i’m impressed
yah is ki mujhe samaj ah gahi thi wase mujhe thori bhoohat englisch aathi hai yeh bih nahi hai ke bihl kul nahi aathi aap ne joh englisch main likha tha sab samaj aah gayi lekin main yeh chati hoon ke ssab urdu bohle na ke englisch