**I was raised here in the US and I am very much confident in myself and my looks. My husband's family is not very good looking to begin with and then with all this weirdness it drives me nuts, where I just want to tell them to go look in the mirror. **They are all overweight and the mom is always trying to hard to tell the kids to lose weight. Now since i am the DIL I can't talk back while the rest of the kids do and my husband doesn't care what his mom keeps telling me all the time.
problem is with your MIL/FIL, FIL is a tharki baba who thinks he can check out other girls.... MIL is a typical aunty who instead of changing herself, projects her misery onto others. sympathize, keep your mouth shut, and live your life.