Istikhara before marriage

Whats up with people who are in a relationship or talk to someone for an (extended) period of time, yet right before deciding for marriage they feel the need to do an istikhara.
Its understandable if you don’t know the other person,or are in the initial stages but I’ve even seen people be in relationships for years then break up coz the result of their istikhara was negative. :confused:

Re: Istikhara before marriage

**Istikhara is involving Allah’s will into ur actions, decisions etc…
And following it after doing Istikhara, is merging ur will or wish into Allah’s Will…
We’ve been told by Prophet :saw2: to do Istikhara before every decisions we make, specially the important ones…
Is se aik tou Allah raazi khush hota hai k mere bnde ne mjhse meri raza puchi hai, dusra insan ghaib ka ilm nae janta tou usey rehnumaei mil jati hai…
Yes, sometimes Istikharas dont appear as they look, doesnt mean Istikhara is something bekar, its just our understandings n nothing

I do Istikhara in my every matter, even when I make frndz…
Bss dua hi tou mangni hai aur kia, how much time does it take??

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