I opened this thread in order to have solved any conflicts or issues between any of the GS members if any. I have seen some issues and conflicts here at GS so all conflicts or personal jealousy or any other such things must be solved.
This is a neutral ground and i and hope so that many Mods will also serve as neutral Umpire here without taking any side of the any conflicting party.
So here it is, no this thread is open for all.
So, please come forward in this great cause of solving each other’s conflicts. No neutral umpire will tease or annoy any party for what he/she had done.
Just fulfill ur responsibilitiz in this great cause.
Welcome all GS Conflicting parties this thread is open now for all discussion.
Awwww zabardast kuptaan sahab. Masha Allah and Jazak Allah khair. You are such a nice guy.
I don't have any problem with anyone. Do you want to know why? Is liaay kay I have a BIG heart.
Loag mujh say jhoot boltay hain, tunz kartay hain aur bura bhala kahtay hain main hamaisha ignore karta hoon ahmaq samajh kar ya nadaan samajh kar. Kioon? Is liaay kay mujhay koi farq naheen parta. Apnay apnay qabr main sub nain apnay buraion aur harkaton ka hisaab dena hai aur mujh pay koi farq naheen parta kisi kay mazaq uranay say. Main to jo hoon so hoon. Aur meray dimagh main yay khannaa bhi bhara hai "I'm the best, I'm the best".
Main bayshuk budtamizi pay badla leta hoon laikin dil saaf rakhta hoon is liaay koi problem naheen hoti. Alhamdolillah. I'm so insaaf pasand. I don't even like to do na insaafi to my dushmans. That is why even my dushmans don't hasitate to ask my mashwara. Alhamdolillah.
I hate to ppl who him/herself can't fight and use their yaars. I don't like to use others in my phaddays. I don't have low lifer friends who would come to fight to ppl for me.
I'm duet lover. Just kidding.
KUPTAAN SAHAB aap bayimaanon ko imaan naheen day saktay. Budtameezon ko tameez naheen sikha saktay.
Yahan pay koi itna buchcha naheen hai kay ussay tameem aur budtameezi ka farq aur Bayimaani aur imaandari ka farq na ho.
Even mods bhi in khoobsoortion say khali naheen. Yahan pay low lifer and cheap her catogery main paay jaatay hain.
Awwww zabardast kuptaan sahab. Masha Allah and Jazak Allah khair. You are such a nice guy.
I don't have any problem with anyone. Do you want to know why? Is liaay kay I have a BIG heart.
Loag mujh say jhoot boltay hain, tunz kartay hain aur bura bhala kahtay hain main hamaisha ignore karta hoon ahmaq samajh kar ya nadaan samajh kar. Kioon? Is liaay kay mujhay koi farq naheen parta. Apnay apnay qabr main sub nain apnay buraion aur harkaton ka hisaab dena hai aur mujh pay koi farq naheen parta kisi kay mazaq uranay say. Main to jo hoon so hoon. Aur meray dimagh main yay khannaa bhi bhara hai "I'm the best, I'm the best".
Main bayshuk budtamizi pay badla leta hoon laikin dil saaf rakhta hoon is liaay koi problem naheen hoti. Alhamdolillah. I'm so insaaf pasand. I don't even like to do na insaafi to my dushmans. That is why even my dushmans don't hasitate to ask my mashwara. Alhamdolillah.
I hate to ppl who him/herself can't fight and use their yaars. I don't like to use others in my phaddays. I don't have low lifer friends who would come to fight to ppl for me.
I'm duet lover. Just kidding.
KUPTAAN SAHAB aap bayimaanon ko imaan naheen day saktay. Budtameezon ko tameez naheen sikha saktay.
Yahan pay koi itna buchcha naheen hai kay ussay tameem aur budtameezi ka farq aur Bayimaani aur imaandari ka farq na ho.
Even mods bhi in khoobsoortion say khali naheen. Yahan pay low lifer and cheap her catogery main paay jaatay hain.
Assalamoalikum GR8Heera bhai! yes ur right i understand that fact and i have also observed here but still we have to do something to finish this ignorance.
^^^Just because other people help you out against someone.....does not mean that YOU personally requested those people to help you. And it also does not mean that those people are your "yaars."
Agar koi banda badtameezi kar raha hai with one person.............aur kuch dair baad agar AUR BHI LOG involve ho jaatay hain argument main.........that does not necessarily mean that all those people are "yaars" and it also does NOT necessarily mean that their help was personally requested.
Banday ko khud sochna chahiye k agar mere khilaf itnay log jama hogaye hain........to shayad ghalati mujh main hai. If so many people are scolding one person regarding their inappropriate behavior.........then that person needs to put their pride to the side and reflect over their behavior.
Also, one has to keep in mind that this is a public forum. And on a public forum, one will intereact with males and females. Zaroori nahin hai ka agar male or female interact kar rahain to un k beech koi affair chal raha hai. That is such a ghattiya soch. Just because two people of the opposite gender are talking or supporting each others' views on a public forum does not mean that they have a romantic interest in one another. And making such WRONG **and FALSE accusations is a **HUGE GUNNAH **in itself. And people who make such false **accusations need to re-examine their level of faith because they're not doing a good job following some of the basic principles.
^^^Just because other people help you out against someone.....does not mean that YOU personally requested those people to help you. And it also does not mean that those people are your "yaars."
Agar koi banda badtameezi kar raha hai with one person.............aur kuch dair baad agar AUR BHI LOG involve ho jaatay hain argument main.........that does not necessarily mean that all those people are "yaars" and it also does NOT necessarily mean that their help was personally requested.
Banday ko khud sochna chahiye k agar mere khilaf itnay log jama hogaye hain........to shayad ghalati mujh main hai. If so many people are scolding one person regarding their inappropriate behavior.........then that person needs to put their pride to the side and reflect over their behavior.
Also, one has to keep in mind that this is a public forum. And on a public forum, one will intereact with males and females. Zaroori nahin hai ka agar male or female interact kar rahain to un k beech koi affair chal raha hai. That is such a ghattiya soch. Just because two people of the opposite gender are talking or supporting each others' views on a public forum does not mean that they have a romantic interest in one another. And making such WRONG **and FALSE accusations is a **HUGE GUNNAH **in itself. And people who make such false **accusations need to re-examine their level of faith because they're not doing a good job following some of the basic principles.
yes i understood and i know all this but why are you saying it to me afterall im not of that thought.?
No doubt everyone has problems with me as i do myself.
My elder brother himself once said that if you ever need to start a fire call Faris.....heheheh :D
Now i am sorry if i have ever annoyed anyone, it is my nature and i will not deny it i can be a most eccentric and annoying, even outright nasty person.
But on the whole if you know me as i really am these are just a small amount of my qualities. I'm also a decent and noble person. My Arrogance and temper are just the qualities that i use at peoples behest. Unfortunately i am the victim of my own success for in a life of brutallity i relied so much on my bad skills that i have tarnished what good skills i have. :(
But one key to solve conflicts is the noble ability to admit ones wrongs. I believe that by admitting and appologising for ones wrongs one not only may earn forgiveness but also peace in ones own burning heart. Sadly i am no Saladin, my heart is more that of a much worse mortal......
But at least in admitting it i can still show some pride. Those of you who know me by now need not be reminded of my story.
No doubt everyone has problems with me as i do myself.
My elder brother himself once said that if you ever need to start a fire call Faris.....heheheh :D
Now i am sorry if i have ever annoyed anyone, it is my nature and i will not deny it i can be a most eccentric and annoying, even outright nasty person.
But on the whole if you know me as i really am these are just a small amount of my qualities. I'm also a decent and noble person. My Arrogance and temper are just the qualities that i use at peoples behest. Unfortunately i am the victim of my own success for in a life of brutallity i relied so much on my bad skills that i have tarnished what good skills i have. :(
But one key to solve conflicts is the noble ability to admit ones wrongs. I believe that by admitting and appologising for ones wrongs one not only may earn forgiveness but also peace in ones own burning heart. Sadly i am no Saladin, my heart is more that of a much worse mortal......
But at least in admitting it i can still show some pride. Those of you who know me by now need not be reminded of my story.
Again i am so sorry for annoying people.
Faris! very gud to read ur comments these are very gud comments and one has to accept his rights and wrongs.
FT the best approch to resolve a situation is sometimes to let it go.Forgive and forget.puranay jhagray and shikwon se dil saaf nahi hota balkay masaael barh jaatey hain. just my 2 annay.
