I have growm up here in europe and i can imagine how difficult it was for my parents to educate me and my sublings to islamic way. But i most say that they really did it great. For example if they sometimes didnot allow us to do somethin they explain to us..why we r not allow to do!! so we understood and it was okay for us…and for exapmle we were allow to go out with friends in midday but on in night, but it was a compromise for us and we were happy abt it …
on the other hand i saw so many muslim family here who just say to their kids .. YOU R NOT ALLOWED TO DO… but they donot give any explaination for it… so many of those kids do the things in private…!!
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I agree!
not just in ur place but many muslim countries it's almost like that!
very sad indeed.
& then the resule is here.......
:(
Help me understand... is this more of a good parenting discussion or do you actually want to discuss something on Religion?