Thanks everyone, all your replies definitely help.
@majesty: I loved your suggestions, you guys are so sweet and helping lots of newbies like me ~ lol. I will be definitely turning to this thread for venting if needed ;). I was talking to my mom the other day, she said 25 years back when she got married they could just go to bigger/smaller shops and find all kind of dresses/lehngas in different ranges. Does this still happen? I mean i have been to Pakistan only once in last 12-15 years is it possible that i can go to any good shop and get a great lehnga? which is actually as good as designers? Pleaseeeee let me know if it would be worth doing? I want a great red lehnga that’s it so please help <3