OK. Enough of sikh discussion. The thread has nothing to do with them so no need to drag them in here, this is what I meant.
Where do you see over the top morality? Should people stop defending what they believe when a nut case start accusing on false premises?
OK. But when you tried to make it as if serious relations also have problems then obviously the answer would be that non-serious non commital relations have more problems. Read further below the response to what you wrote about arranged marriages.
This is the first time I ever heard about muslim marriage.
What do you understand of muslim marriages? Try to separate any cultural silliness from muslim marriages for a start.
Even then, you must have had unusual bad experiences or are pretending to be naive and ill-informed.
I am not going to comment on ‘free-for-all’ here. Simply because we cannot jump from one end to another end during discussion. Let’s just stay focused.
Tell us what is your problem with muslim marriages?
Write points by points.
Sure they can. Who will deny that. But less commonly than non-serious relations or marriages on the basis of lust, infatuation, so called love at first sight, in order to give legitimacy to an unborn illegitimate child, or those purely based on monitory gain or fame.
I said I maybe wrong. So no comments for now.
You addressed this to someone else. Please allow me to give my response here.
While I agree that a quick judgment of throwing someone out of muslim-hood just because someone question something what muslims do or islam teaches is not good, but the choice of words and more importantly the solution one finds after criticizing religion speaks a lot for the real intention of the person.
Criticism for the sake of criticism and criticizing based on utter lack of even basic knowledge are not good practices.