Islam/Having a BF/Parents

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Re: Islam/Having a BF/Parents

@Fbi786

I however, wud disagree as one part of the nikah rulings IS that .. you need the permission of your ‘wali’ i.e. the parents from both sides, if not then uncles, if they are not thre, then grandfather etc etc .. right .??? and the permission of wali isnt there at the time of nikah ..ok the nikah wud be done yehh but is it logically, out of respect for parents, and for the betterment of all the ppl around ie. friends and family ..be a right action ?? after all the nikah IS done so the family, the friends know that the action of nikah was done through the RIGHT channels and if the action of nikah has flaws ..it raises an objection that fulaan and fulaan done nikah chori chori oh wi without parents blessings ..wud bring pain and to some extent shame to parents that how ungrateful their kids turned out to be ???

ps. this is my opinion and how i wud go about it it were to happen to me.

@Maheen2002

the Nikah is not valid if the girl’s wali does not give permission. I think the boy and girl needs to go to an elder in the family who understands these matters and get them to speak to the parents for a Nikah, giving the reasons stated in the initial post. The rukhsati can be done later on but the parents should agree to a Nikah keeping the teachings of the religion in mind.

ditto!