Is your husband the same as he was before shaadi?

[MixedBeauty]

@coolgirl

nahi yaar he is a wonderful hubby!! he helps me do everything around the house aur sab kuch.. baas thora unromantic ho gaya hai.. I think we are both very comfortable with each other baas I have noticed that he does’nt do those small things anymore like he did before

Hun why dont you give him a rose now and again and like pareezay said make a meal and show him how much he means to you, He shud hopefully get the hint. And get your parents or his or someone to babysit and you 2 go out somewhere for the night. Make it happen

@korn666

My husband has changed 1 million %. He has become so worse i can’t even explain. Everybody says that after children the guy becomes some what ‘OK’ but to tell u the truth, a man’s nature never changes. Its been 5 years for my marriage now and im going through the worst time of my life. Would u believe it was a love marriage and i have 2 beautiful daughters as well. I honestly feel now, i made a huge mistake marrying him

I am not crying or weeping about my situation but just am answering your question sweety!!!

Thats jus sad Especially that it was a love marriage hurts more when it doesnt work out. Hope it gets better inshallah.

@coolgirl

Thanks for sharing korn666. Even though my husband hasn’t changed a great deal i do feel that we both spend a lot of time with our beautiful daughter and ot enough with each other and I think that is a contributing factor but I just feel that we are going down slowly and I just want to keep enough romance in our relationship that we can love each and spend a good life together.

Spice it up, You know..

@rabia3983

Girls please think abt what you guys are complaining abt…if he isn’t showing his love as much as he use to, doesn’t mean he doens’t love you the same or more.

i use to get angry at this …i m not married but we been together for almost five years now mA, engaged for two of those 5 and getting married this june iA.
I notice him changing within two years of your friendship.

I use to get mad, and cry. But then a friend of mine whose perfect husband, who use to do all the romantic stuff even after 3 year of marriage…ended up cheating on her. This made me realize whats really important.

I loving faithful partner? or a romantic but unfaithful or uncaring or disrespectful partner.
Now i do the extra stuff…and once in a while he will surprise me…but i dont expect it so its even better.

Thats EXACTLY how i was, first year was perfect, second things got rocky, bcoz i wanted to marry him the first year but he HAD to graduate, and i neva realised that he must graduate in order for us to have the cosy life i’ve always wanted after marriage. So now my friend who was with her bf for 5-6 months, hes cheated on her so many times. Shes in denial about it, yet their gonna get married this year. All the best to them But i wudnt swop my faithful bf for anything, even if it means not marrying at all. If that makes sense!
The grass is NEVER greener always remember that girls. Be happy with who and what you got.