Re: Is Your Husband a Mule?
personally I didn't marry my hubby for his degree I married him kyunki I felt something for him. No matter how filmi it sounds I saw him and mujhe feel huwa he is the one for me...but I also made sure that his family is open-minded and he is a hardworker. And I could feel from him that he felt something for me too.
mere haath pauv salaamat hain agar woh music mein bhi apni degree karna chahte hain toh karein na ....I'm not paralyzed I can and do work too. push him into a career that he has no interest in and watch him suffer for the rest of his life cuz why? so he can provide for me? I dont need anyone to provide for me alhamdulillah. and even if I decide to quit then I will learn to live in whatever little he makes.
aur mera belief hai k risk utna hi milta hai jitna allah ne aapke naseeb mein likha hota hai...so even as a doctor woh utna hi kamaayenge jitna he would be making as a musician or sociologist...because that is what allah has written in his naseeb.
marriages are partnerships you're supposed to support each other no matter what...sometimes that's easier said than done I agree...but i think women and even men do try hard to be supportive of their spouses no matter what. I would not want the following thought to cross his mind "agar main single hota toh main kuch bhi kar sakta tha" I want him to instead think meri wife kitni achi hai always supportive of me thank god I got married :)