Is your bedtime dictated to you?

a lot of question i have today … i’m on full power … hahahah

so the question …

is your bedtime according to when your husband goes to sleep, i.e., when he is going to bed, you’re also asked to stop doing whatever you’re doing and go to bed too?

or do you stay awake and do your thing, and go to bed whenever you want to? or on the flip side, go to bed earlier?

those without a husband yet … is there someone who tells you when to go to sleep?

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noooooooooo.. my hubby sleep very late because its nature of his work and i sleep when i want too mostly i sleep before him ..

yes my sleep tells me :chai:

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My husband goes to sleep very early. I don't usually. I sleep late. He doesn't tell me to sleep when he is sleeping.

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Yes, when my husband wants to sleep, he wants everyone, even the house pets and flies to sleep at that time :mad2:

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My clock tells me when to sleep :(

back in home, my mom keeps telling everyone to go to sleep when she is going to sleep. if she wakes up in mid of her sleep and see someone still up, she will say ,SOU JAO NA AB.

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due to the nature of my work, I dont sleep that early. Normally I go to bed b/w 1:30am-2:00am and i dont force my wife to stay awake till I go to bed.

She does not really have a set time. She normally goes to bed b/w 9pm-12pm depending on how tired she is, whats on TV and if she wasnt to call and talk to her mom back in Pakistan.

We normally spend at least 1 hour together after kids are asleep where I take my T and we talk, watch tv or whatever!

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I go to sleep when I want.

and this is in life and relationships because??

:khumar:

My mum’s jutti tells me to go to sleep!

i feel for you! it’s really annoying … yet sweet in a way … but if you’ve got work to do … then you cant just go off to bed …
my issue isnt as severe as yours though …

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Nope, I go to bed when I want to..Not married yet, soon to find out what it will be like though. I am a nocturnal creature so nothing can put me to sleep at night .

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I go to sleep when I want to as well........ now im curious about what will happen when I get married. Interesting topic... never really thought about it!

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^ call him up and ask what his plans are :D

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LOL Farrah! I think i'll wait to ask him this question when he gets back from work!

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update me later :wink:

my mums as well!

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we both go to bed the same time.. i dont know if its cuz we are fairly newly married 82.5 yrs) or what but even though we will be doing our own thing to unwind.. the minute one of us lies down to sleep.. the other follows liek THAT :D its sooo odd.. the dumbness is.... sleep will go away and then we will be lying hteir tlaking into the early morning cursing ourselves the next day cuz we are overtitred with no chance of sleep until the next night where we will probably repeat ourselves from hte previous night.. and so on and so forth this goes.. or has been going on since we got married :D

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By the time I go to bed , she is already sleeping and when I wake up she is still sleeping.

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^LOL....

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^^ awwwwww .. poor you .. :cb:

Mashallah

isnt it closer to 83 years now? :D