is this weird ..

Lifestyle Relationships
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well its not totally like tht he does want me to khayal karo of my parents n stuff but he doesnt really trust my bro n mom .. bcs i remember one tim ei was on the phone wiht him n i had to make tea for my mom n then i was like i have to go right now n hes like who is telling u to stop talking to me ? .. who is it thats telling u to put the phone down ? i was like inside my mind wth ?

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If all 3 of them are telling you not to talk to friends too much, then you should listen to them.

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how long do you talk to your friends? i dont make everyday long calls with friends when hubby is home. when he gets home it is our time not mine or his time having long calls with friends.

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does he have a problem with your friends or your family? did you tell him you need to make tea for mom and willl call back in 5mins or so? why he doesnt trust your brother and mom?

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htat was teh first time he knew of that iwas talking to a friend .. n he didnt know the length .. it wasnt long .. i dont have a million friends nor am i that super close wtih any of them .. i just met that old freind after long time so i went home n talked to her on the phone .. n his family is like this too .. when i was stayign at their place for alittle while i made our mutual cousins friends n u sed to go over there almost everyday .. they just lived two houses down but they started gettign really annoyed and whenver she would come and tryt o call me to take me somewhere or come over they would do soemthing like one time my bro in law to be he said to her when she called that no shes busy she cant talk right now .. i never did anythgin for themt o behave like that .. i never talked about them with those girls .. but i think they didnt trust their family or soemthing but i was getting bored and felt suffocated without friends

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He doesn't trust your mom because she asked you to do something while you were talking to him? I think the guy has some sorta paranoia as well.

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im not sure .. he is part of my family though .. not immediate u know what i mean .. no i just said i have to go now ill call u back later bcs it was getting frustrating doing stuff in the kitchen n talking on the phone at the same time .. im not sure exactly why but i know our family does a lot of gossip n i think relatives in the family circle have told them how evil my bro and is and how my mom are .. they like to make stories up n stuff based on things heard from here n there .. my sis husband started sayign weird stuff about my om to her too when she got newly married .. but my mom s behaviour was fine with him i dont undesrtand .. n one time on the phone he even mocked my mom .. probelm is now whenever we have a fight he thinks theyr telling me to say that stuff to him .. its all mixed up

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My fiance in the first couple of months when we started dating asked me not to discuss our relationship with my cousin. I was kind of close with my cousin at the time, and she was jealous of our relationship, it was my first relationship so I'd talk to her about it, and she in return caused misunderstandings and problems between me and my boyfriend. Once I stopped talking to her; things got better :D

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He doesn’t want you backbiting of your susral with your friends and in turn they giving evil advise on how to tackle your in-laws.
He is nipping the evil in the bud:halo:
But he doesn’t know you can come online and broadcast ghar ka tamasha all over the net.