is this weird ..

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Re: is this weird ..

@Dubaiwali

I know of a person whose ex-boyfriend was exactly the same. (They recently broke up. It was she who took the step.) He used to be possessive, overtly obsessive, controlling and didn’t like any of her friends. He didn’t allow her to meet up with them or even talk to them too. She, blindly followed him and what he used to preach her; she ended up annoying and making angry a lot of her friends, including her good/best friends. In the end, before the best friends could tell her to step out of this controlling relationship, she took the step herself. IMHO there needs to be a balance. A guy just can’t expect the girl to cut off from her friends totally for him.

how are these two scenarios exactly the same?

you have just outrightly declared that the OP’s husband is a possessive, overtly obsessive and controlling.. based on what ur friend went through?