Is this unreasonable?

mama_ki_dua · May 30, 2010, 12:40am

Like someone else said, it definitely depends on the way you say it too.

A girl (and her family) should look at the guy’s potential too and not only what he is earning at that specific point. A guy coming straight out of college may not have much earning power…but he has the potential to, with several years of experience.

At the same time you have to expect the fact that rizQ is written for you. You could marry a smart, ambitious person but if you guys get hit with bad luck you may have to accept the reality that you won’t be able to live the way you do right now.

And btw, about your point, for the most part the daily fights about money would happen if the guy was being extra kanjoos. There are some dudes who earn well and are getting by but can still be very very kanjoos.

My friend’s husband who happens to be a lawyer fits this category perfectly