Re: Is this unreasonable too ? !
I just feel sorry and pity for those wanna be sold,......... men who want sugar mama and openly admit it. :(
Allow me to share this story:
This guy once met a gal and started seeing her gradully on regular basis. She was the *dream kind of woman with very clear mind very appropriate and level headed personality *(I did get to meet her many times) and he was just naive foreigner exploring the possibilities with open mind and found her very very attractive.
Over the period of time he started to feel for her and she had reciprocal feelings.
He had some reservations about her including her thoughts and few irrational and illogical behaviors. I do not know what they were since despite I asked him many times he did not tell me but he did say he was worried about something about her.
I suspect he was worried about her past. Not sure.
Well, he ended up marrrying another woman from a much much lower but similar religious background ( not muslim) and still was very happy about a year and half ago when I spoke to him. They have two children now, twins.
I still think the first woman was much better in term of her great looks, daily routines and her very clear thoughts and very humble behavior despite her being filthy rich.
She even cleaned his bathroom and did laundry for him. And mistakenly washed my socks too when I spent the night at his place. I made sure I pointed out to her and she laughed....... LOL
She still reminds me of Diana who married Prince Charles. One night she told me she really did love him when he was asleep and snoring on the couch. She had no child of her though. What a great woman. I still think of her as a very sincere and loving friend but somehow my friend was not comfortable with her. To date I really do not know why he did not go along with her.
The kicker here is that this first woman belonged to a filthy rich family who had billions of dollars in account. And him being very attractive, very smart, and professional enough that this rich family fell in love with him. She liked him, her mother liked him and her father even wrote a return card for him for good wishes when they were dating.
He told me he just did not feel right for going along with this relation further since he felt he may not feel like a MAN if he did that and since there was something in her past not so great that he will never be able to accept that in his mind.
So one night I said to him: Dude. I am not in your shoes thank God.
You make your decision based on your comfort level and never ever feel regret if you make the decision. Accept the consequences like a real man.
He did. And I feel good to know that he made the right choice.
Bottom line: He refused to be put on sale for his looks, brain and knowledge.
And he ended up happy in the end with twin kids. He works hard everyday like any real man in this world. He does not have a driver to drive him around but he was very satisfied when I spoke to him last.
