Re: Is this some form of bullying at work?
My TL just told me that when I was in a meeting this morning, the Mgr spoke to them all and one of the team apparently ran off crying (this particular girl is actually usually quite close friends with me) so obviously now they know that the mgr is involved.......
@wanna_be a mum
Ive also been through a similar situation. But for my better luck, that girl i had issues with had already had issues with a lot many other people in our team, so everyone is well aware of her nature.
In my case, i directly reported it to my TL, updated him on my situation. When things got a bit out of hand i also informed the manager. I told my manager what all she had said and how unprofessional and unethical it was. He was very understanding but then th girl also talked to the manager and convinced him onto believing her. At this time, i made a point not to talk bad about her with anyone else but noticed every move of hers. I noticed that she said quite a lot of bad stuff out loud to another colleague. This was a turning point. I got after this factor and continuously updated my manager. In the end the team realized that the issue has always been with her.
Anyway, my point is that keep your manager updated. Do not talk bad about her with any fellow colleague and do not misbehave with her openly. With time people will realize that you are not what she tries to portray u as. As for the present situation, just update your TL and your manager, Insha Allah all will be well. :)